SAFAH Posted May 7, 2010 Report Share Posted May 7, 2010 Bismillah To you my dear father. date of birth august 1948 day of death. 13.6.2009. from your loving daughter safah, i love you and always will miss you in every step of my life. Dad...so many images come to mind whenever I speak your name; It seems without you in my life things will never been the same. What happened to those lazy days when I was just a child; When my life was consumed in you in your love, and in your smile. What happened to all those times when I always looked to you; No matter what happened in my life you could make my gray skies blue. Dad, some days I hear your voice and turn to see your face; Yet in my turning...it seems the sound has been erased. Dad, who will I turn to for answers when life does not make sense; Who will be there to hold me close when the pieces just don't fit. Oh, Dad, if I could turn back time and once more hear your voice; I'd tell you that out of all the dads you would still be my choice. Please always know I love you and no one can take your place; Years may come and go but your memory will never be erased. YA Allah, i beg you to forgive my dad for his mistakes and grant him a place in jannah.ameen. I love you dad always will,till death takes me away. Your always loving daughter . SAFAH.xxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAFAH Posted May 7, 2010 Author Report Share Posted May 7, 2010 FIVE long months since my dear dad passed away, l dedicate this to him. l cherish the past we shared but miss the future we will not have Wish You Were Here.... Five months have passed I'll never forget the day Someone rang to tell me That you'd gone away The hurt is the same Like an open wound There are days I don't utter a sound Some days the pain is stronger It makes me sick and weak I can't stand this much longer I just sit here and weep I've shut my private door And let no one in Locking myself in a box They try, but I won't give in You were like a rock Strong, faithful and true What worth has my life Now I don't have you I was your first born Daddy's little girl. Each day i remember the love you shared the things you did,the way you cared words unspoken,tears unseen wishing your absent dad was only a dream. We all love and miss you so much, sleep well and take care of all who went before you. Always in my heart. your loving and caring daughter.xxx safah.xxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MUSLIM WOMAN Posted May 7, 2010 Report Share Posted May 7, 2010 Asalamu'alaikum my eyes are filled with tears. Sis , ur poem reminds me of my late father . I lost him about 2 years back. May Allah forgives my dad , you dad and us and grant us paradise . Ameen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAFAH Posted May 7, 2010 Author Report Share Posted May 7, 2010 Ameen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MUSLIM WOMAN Posted May 7, 2010 Report Share Posted May 7, 2010 Asalamu'alaikum sis , try to make this dua for dad as taguht in holy Quran. لرَّبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا "My Lord! Bestow on them Your Mercy as they did bring me up when I was young." Al-Isra verse 24 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAFAH Posted June 13, 2010 Author Report Share Posted June 13, 2010 Bismillah Today 1 year has passed,we love and miss you dad each and every day. We're never ready to say goodbye To someone we hold dear. If it were up to us, dear Dad, We'd always keep you here. But God has reasons of His own And plans we cannot know, And these are always for our good, Though it may seem not so. Our arms are empty and our hearts Are filled with tears and grief, For we who loved each day with you, Now find those days too brief. Yet if we could only heaven see, We'd know you're happy there, And we would never call you back When such great joy you share. And so we'll trust you to God's great care And know some day, once more, We'll hold you to our hearts again When we reach heaven's shore. Your children and mum misses you each and every day, dad..we love you with all our hearts. rest in peace..ameen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MUSLIM WOMAN Posted June 13, 2010 Report Share Posted June 13, 2010 Salaam Sister, may Allah eases your pain and grant u and him Jannat , Ameen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members NADOUS Posted June 13, 2010 Members Report Share Posted June 13, 2010 Salam alaykum sister... I understand your pain my mom died 15 years ago and i still miss her... With the time the pain got easier but we never forgot them... They remain inside of us, every day we miss them and wish them to be here...Some day are more hard then others... I hope you will feel better trough the next years... May Allah easiest you and your family pain and grant all of you a place in Janah... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FlasHDasH Posted June 14, 2010 Report Share Posted June 14, 2010 Why not you Sisters make something like (Sadaqa Jarea) for them ? that would be so great and so good from you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAFAH Posted June 14, 2010 Author Report Share Posted June 14, 2010 Thanks to all, for your kind words..love you all for the sake of Allah. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MUSLIM WOMAN Posted June 14, 2010 Report Share Posted June 14, 2010 Asalamu'alaikum Why not you Sisters make something like (Sadaqa Jarea) for them ? that would be so great and so good from you I planted some fruit trees beside the grave of my beloved dad and grand ma. Will this be considered as Sadaqa Jarea ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAFAH Posted June 14, 2010 Author Report Share Posted June 14, 2010 it depends if you let people eat from the fruit tree,then yes,and if the trees were planted in the intention that the reward be conveyed to the deceased. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 14, 2010 Report Share Posted June 14, 2010 “If a human dies, then his good deeds stop except for three: a Sadaqa Jariah (continuous charity), a beneficial knowledge, or a righteous child who prays for him.” – Sahih Muslim So insallah..Sister any good deed done is Sadaqa Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FlasHDasH Posted June 14, 2010 Report Share Posted June 14, 2010 Asalamu'alaikum Why not you Sisters make something like (Sadaqa Jarea) for them ? that would be so great and so good from you I planted some fruit trees beside the grave of my beloved dad and grand ma. Will this be considered as Sadaqa Jarea ? As sister Aminah and sister Safah said, you just make your intention that those are planted as a Sadaqa Jarea for them and In shaa ALLAH, those will be accepted and made thousands of mountains of Hasanat And ALLAH knows best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members NADOUS Posted June 14, 2010 Members Report Share Posted June 14, 2010 My mother was christians and i don't know if we can do it for them... :( ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MUSLIM WOMAN Posted June 14, 2010 Report Share Posted June 14, 2010 Salaam sis nadous , may be , this is the saddest part in a new Muslims life . I know we are not allowed to pray for salvation of non-Muslims but not sure if we are allowed to give charity on behalf of them . May be , u can talk to a Mufti ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members NADOUS Posted June 15, 2010 Members Report Share Posted June 15, 2010 It is very hard yes, but with the time we find that more easy... Either to pray for them sometimes i ask Allah if there is any chance to forgive them for their ignorance to do it and to help me to pass those hard times... But for the one who are alive i ask him always to guide them the right way... I hope they will finish by to find the road of islam in their hearts... :( ... But Allah guide who he want to be guided... And i hope they will be part of it... Insh'allah.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAFAH Posted June 15, 2010 Author Report Share Posted June 15, 2010 My mother was christians and i don't know if we can do it for them... :( ... salam sis..i am sorry to say,even if you do a charity for them,it will not benefit them,and Allah is the best of judge. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members NADOUS Posted June 16, 2010 Members Report Share Posted June 16, 2010 I know sister but thank even ... Allah know best and will take the best decision... I am leaving with this , i just try not to think about it too often... Then it heart less... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAFAH Posted June 17, 2010 Author Report Share Posted June 17, 2010 Ameen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members NADOUS Posted June 17, 2010 Members Report Share Posted June 17, 2010 Amen Was same for me brother... And as you say people of today don't follow the bible anymore.... They are lost...:( ... But my parents and grand parents they always was believing in one God only ... That's why i always ask Allah if there is possibility to forgive them for their ignorance ... They haven't been guided (on the earth) and haven't see the signs He sent to them... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAFAH Posted June 17, 2010 Author Report Share Posted June 17, 2010 i can understand your pain,but we must remember,as all Muslims they believe in all prophets of Allah,we believe in Isa(as)jesus) so the last law of Allah is to believe in him and his last prophet(saw) if one dont believe in Muhammad(saw) as the last prophet,but only believe there is only one GOD,then their iman is not complete.and if your belief is not complete then you die as none muslim,even if you believe in one god. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members NADOUS Posted June 17, 2010 Members Report Share Posted June 17, 2010 I know they should believe in the prophets... But This is all i can do for them is to ask Allah sister, it does not make me to feel better... :( ... If i keep thinking they will be in hell it is too much hearting... :( ... It might be hard for a born muslim to understand that feeling but to us this is all we have ... HOPE... and this is all we can do ... PRAY Allah to forgive them if possible... Allah know best... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAFAH Posted May 16, 2011 Author Report Share Posted May 16, 2011 Salam may Allah eases your pain . and if your dad is a muslim then i pray he gets best of that world,ameen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MUSLIM WOMAN Posted May 16, 2011 Report Share Posted May 16, 2011 Asalamu'alaikum my eyes were looking around the room to find my father. How could it be that he was not amongst us? we came from Allah and will return to Him . if ur father died as a Muslim , may he enters in Paradise , Ameen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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