Do not judge others from their external

[ummtaalib]

The outcome of our lives is determined by our final actions. No matter how pious or sinful one’s life may seem, it is the conclusion that counts in the eyes of Allah. This reality should instil in us both hope and humility—hope, because redemption is always possible, and humility, because none of us knows how we will meet our Lord.

The Prophet ﷺ said: “One man does the deeds of those who go to hell but is one of those who go to paradise, and another does the deeds of those who go to paradise but is one of those who go to hell, for judgement is given according to one’s final actions.” (Bukhari and Muslim).

In light of this, it’s crucial to adopt an attitude of humility and self-awareness. Often, we are quick to judge others based on their current state or past actions, but we must remember that we do not know their true standing in the sight of Allah. Someone who appears distant from righteousness today may surpass us in the end, just as someone who seems virtuous might falter at the last moment. Therefore, we should never consider ourselves superior to others. Instead, we should strive to see ourselves as constantly in need of improvement and guidance.

Imam Sha’rani mentions in his 'Code of Companionship’: “Among the rights that a brother is entitled to from his brother is that one should always perceive themselves as inferior when comparing themselves to their brother. This should be rooted in firm conviction, not just opinion or speculation.”

Moreover, this humility should extend to how we interact with others, regardless of their social status or knowledge. Scholars have noted, “One who does not genuinely regard themselves as inferior to their brother will not truly benefit from their companionship.” Every person we encounter has something to offer us, and we should always be open to learning from them. By perceiving others as greater than ourselves, we open our hearts to true growth and wisdom, benefiting from the experiences and insights of those around us.

We owe it to our brothers never to look down at them with an eye of disdain, and refrain from disgracing them due to a sin or any other matter. Reflect on the words of a great spiritual scholar Sayyidi ‘Ali Wafa:

“It would be foolish and thoughtless to assume that you are immune from being in a similar situation or to condemn someone for something you could potentially do yourself. You should be aware that what is possible for someone else, is equally possible for you.”

May Allah allow us to benefit from the companionship and insights of those around us, and protect us from arrogance and self-righteousness. 

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