The question is beautiful. But is very diverse. The Ideal Woman cannot be limited to a wife role. She has to be a sister, mother, daughter and neighbor among many other things. And all the Islamic women are amazing role models. If you want to know about womanhood read about Hazrat Khatija and Hazrat Ayesha. If you want to learn about ideal daughter read about Hazrat Fatima. And if you want to read about great Islamic ways of being a woman there are many other role models like the daughter Asma bint Abu Bakr. These are all great and praise worthy women.
So many hadith on the purity of women. We should all read and follow accordingly. May Allah guide us all to become good muslims. Ameen