Haya

Finally deleted FB permanently! Manged everything and left dhahirism permanently!

In sum, the questioner wants to know if it's correct to recite durood o salaam after verse 56 of surah Ahzaab. It's answered that it's proven from some seerah books that Hadhrat Ali used to do so, though there's no mention of it anywhere being the common regular practice of Nabi sallalaho alaihi wasallam. So there's nothing wrong with doing so with the hope of reward, but it'd be a gross mistake to make it compulsory. Hope that much is sufficient.

Can you read Urdu?

سوال: محترم مفتی صاحب السلام علیکم مفتی صاحب کتاب الشفاء، معارف الحدیث میں لکھا ہوا ہے کہ حضرت علی سورہ احزاب کی آیت نمبر 56پڑھنے کے بعد درودوسلام پڑھتے تھے کیا یہ صحیح ہے ؟۔ جواب: سیرت کی بعض کتابوں کے مطابق حضرت علی کرم اللہ وجہہ سے مذکورہ آیت کے بعد درودوسلام پڑھنا ثابت ہے۔ علامہ قسطلانی نے مواھب لدنیہ میں علامہ مراغی کی تحقیق النصرة فی دارالہجرة کے حوالے سے یہ بھی ذکر کیا ہے کہ یہ درودوسلام حضرت علی رضی اللہ عنہ سے خاص موقع پر منقول ہے یعنی جب حضور صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کا وصال ہواتو اس وقت بعض صحابہ کرام رضی اللہ عنہم کے استفسار پر حضرت علی رضی اللہ عنہ نے درودوسلام کے کچھ کلمات ارشاد فرمائے تھے ایسا کرنا آپ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کا معمول ہو یہ کسی مستند کتاب میں معتمد حوالوں سے مذکورنہیں ہے۔ تاہم اگر اس آیت کے بعد حضرت علی رضی اللہ عنہ سے مروی کلمات یادرودوسلام کے دیگر منقول وما ثورکلمات آہستہ سے دل میں پڑھ ليے جائیں تو کوئی حرج نہیں ہے۔ بلکہ اللہ تعالیٰ سے اجروثواب کی امید بھی ہے۔ البتہ یہ خیال رہے کہ اس درودوسلام کو آیت مذکورہ کالازمی حصہ سمجھ کر پڑھنا سخت غلطی ہوگی ۔ فقط واللہ اعلم Source

Okay. But aapi you still haven't told me what you as a sister feel. What are your personal feelings?

I want to know your opinion. Also, the opinion of other sisters... Come on sisters! Don't be soooo lazy :) My question is, is it in conflict with the natural haya within us( i.e. sisters) to use our real name? OR do you avoid using your real for security purposes? If a sister uses her real name, does it mean she has less haya?

Is it against modesty for a sister to use her real name on internet?

I understand what you're saying :) I made the comment because we sisters also love mosques but we don't have that opportunity :( Understand?

This doesn't apply to sisters :(

I thought so because their traditions are based on shirkia and kufri beliefs. If you write down their traditions but also mention Islamic perspective on this then it'd not be sin I think.

Yes I can do after Fajr.

There was soooo much info regarding this, and actually I didn't revise it again so I feel everything got mixed up...Maybe need to start again when find time

Wouldn't it be sin if she writes about these non-Muslims traditions in her essay?

Retracted

I've been sick since last week, though now I'm able enough to walk and attend classes, alhamdulillah for everything. Duas requested. During my illness I got ajeeb thoughts of death, thoughts of different people who had been died in front of me were coming to my mind. I think that's not depression, but just reality we forget it but hardships remind us that this world isn't our home. I hope it's not about getting despair, but just reality, as we really don't know in which state we would die and we don't know what we'd face after death so we should let ourselves feel whatever we feel about death. May Allah have mercy upon us. Ameen.

for sharing. So true...

Really? who decides that how many times she can go?

Wa alaikum assalam. No, never. If I get banned, I'll take you with me :P

Huh? Dear Mod Acacia: Honey api Ummi Taalib might have forgotten all my valuable suggestions that I gave her about this site by using my decent amount of intellect, and now she is talking about my ban? She don't know I can complain about her to other mods. :P

You didn't point out if I posted an animated pic? I didn't realize while posting, but now I feel it is?

What do you think about burning the spiders from fiqhi perspective? Most people smash them as some ulama allow. But setting on fire? It'd not be allowed I guess, even as per those who allow killing spiders?

May Allah destroy Israelis and send them in the depth of Hell-Fire.

But there's no tafsir in first link, just blank page?

Four out of 12 are Holy months? What about Shaban, Shawwal and specially Ramadan?

Dear mods, Here's a suggestion: Why not add the bbcode list for the mobile version too? Images can't be attached through mobile as there's no any such option even after clicking "more reply option" in full version.