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Would stepping into a puddle make my clothes impure Question If I am running and I step in a puddle, is the water that splashes on me regarded as impure or pure? Answer: In the name of Allah, the most Beneficent, the most Merciful. There are two situations to the aforementioned question. If there were no impurities in the puddle, then your clothes, shoes etc… will remain pure and paak. If there were impurities in the puddle then your shoes and the area of the clothes where the puddle splashed on to will be considered impure. If the impurity is visible the clothes and shoes will become pure by removing the filth itself even if this is achieved by washing it once. If its removal is difficult, there is no harm if some trace remains. If the impurity on the other hand is invisible, it is to be washed three times and squeezed after each wash. (Nurul Idah p.87 & Durre Mandhuud p.471 v.1) Only Allah Knows Best Mohammed Tosir Miah Darul Ifta Birmingham. Source

Wash only that part which is soiled by impurity Impurity coming on a blanket Question I saw a spot of blood on the blanket. I was on my monthly cycle but there was already blood spot on another place which was not impure blood. But I noticed another spot and I’m not sure whether it’s impure or not though the bedding etc is not stained. If I give the blanket for washing in laundry as the blanket is big and difficult to wash will it suffice and be pure? Answer Yes it will suffice. However you do not have to wash the entire blanket for it to be pure, just wash the area which is soiled with impurity. And Allah Ta’ala (الله تعالى) knows best. Answered by: Mufti Zakaria Makada Checked & Approved: Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach) Source

Purifying Items Q: If there is impurity on a table or chair, how many times do I have to wipe it? Is it necessary to wipe it three times or if no traces of impurity is seen. If traces of something invisible like urine etc are there does wiping once or twice suffice. Also if I wash blood stained or impurity stained clothes in washing machine once will they be pure? Do I have to run rinse 3 times as I feel I am wasting water. A: If urine or any impurity has come on it, water will have to be used to remove the urine, impurity, etc. Merely wiping will not suffice. And Allah Ta’ala (الله تعالى) knows best. Answered by: Mufti Zakaria Makada Checked & Approved: Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach) Source

Purifying Clothes

Touching Impurities & Wudhu Merely touching impurities does not break wudhu. (Fatāwa Mahmodiyyah, Vol.5,Pg.74)

Dried Impurity

Wet hand do not contract impurity from impure garments unless the hand comes into direct contact with Najaasat. Question My clothes was napaak (ritually impure). I touched my clothes and my body was sweaty. I then touched another object and think that the sweat passed onto that object. Before I could clean that object, somebody else touched this object. And they touched this object with sweathy/wet hands becuase they came out of the bathroom. How far does the najis (impurity) go. The clothes, my hands, and the object are now cleaned, but that person is going everywhere touching things, washing his hands, etc. Is the najaasat continuing? Answer Your hands did not become Naapaak, nor the object that you touched afterwards. The other person’s hands also did not become Naapaak. There is no need to delve into matters of cleanliness and impurity with a fine-tooth comb. Shari’ah has made it easy. A moist or sweaty hand does not contract impurity from impure garments unless the hand comes into direct contact with Najaasat. Mufti Siraj Desai Askmufti.co.za Source

A Decision cannot be based on Doubt / Suspicion

Visibility of traces of filth

Istishab al-wasf Key Principles Relating to Certainty, Doubt, and Baseless Misgivings (waswasa)

Many people suffer from doubts regarding purity which makes it very difficult and opens doors to the whisperings of Shaytaan. Once the problem is recognised and correct guidance is sought from qualified scholars and thereafter acted upon, Inshaa-allah the doubts can be overcome. Here under we will try to compile information which we pray becomes beneficial to sufferers of doubts regarding purity . Post 2. Istishab al-wasf & Key Principles Relating to Certainty, Doubt, and Baseless Misgivings (waswasa) Post 3. Visibility of traces of filth Post 4. A Decision cannot be based on doubt Post 5. Wet hand do not contract impurity from impure garments unless the hand comes into direct contact with Najaasat. Post 6. Dried Impurity Post 7. Touching Impurity & Wudhu Post 8. Purifying clothes Post 9. Purifying Items Post 10. Wash only that part which is oiled with impurity Post 11. Stepping in a Puddle Post 12. Religion is Easy. Do not make it difficult

Friends By Hadrat Mawlānā Muhammad Saleem Dhorat hafizahullāh It is very important for every Muslim to make sure that his choice of friends and the company he keeps is correct. It has been proven through experience that the habits and behaviour of friends and associates slowly enter into an individual. Without realising, a person begins to adopt the style and behaviour of his friends. We are all witnesses to this fact. Sadly, I can recall many incidents where those who were pious, religious and good in character lost all of their good qualities because they kept bad company and associated with an inappropriate circle of friends. I have also seen others who were drowning in sins and evil, who underwent a complete revolution in their lives after adopting the company of a pious person of high moral standards. Rasūlullāh sallallāhu ‘alayhi wasallam advised, A person is on the way of his friend. Therefore he should think very carefully whom he is making a friend. (At-Tirmidhī, Abū Dāwūd, Ahmad) Sincere Friends We need friends who are sincere, genuine and, true in their friendship. Those who care for our well-being from every aspect are true friends. Those who have concern not only for the needs of this temporary life but also for the requirements of our everlasting life are our real friends. Allāh is Sufficient for Love There is only one Supreme Being Who is worthy of 'true' love and friendship and this is Allāh ta‘ālā. For love and friendship, He alone is enough. Rasūlullāh sallallāhu ‘alayhi wasallam commented, If I were to take a khalīl (intimate friend) other than my Lord, I would have taken Abū Bakr. (Al-Bukhārī) Here, despite such close ties and such a strong bond of friendship with Sayyidunā Abū Bakr radhiyallāhu ‘anhu, Rasūlullāh sallallāhu ‘alayhi wasallam explains that the highest level of intimacy is reserved only for Allāh ta‘ālā. However, when one becomes engrossed in Divine love and then in the light of this love, one befriends and loves somebody, then inshā’allāh this form of friendship will prove beneficial in both worlds. This is an extract from the booklet ‘Friendship & our Young Generation’ published by the Islāmic Da'wah Academy

A Few Lessons on Adab (Respect) It is a famous statement of the ‘Ulama: Those who succeeded did so through their adab (respect) and those who failed did so because of the lack of respect” (Adabul ikhtilaf fi masailil ‘lmi wad din, pg.192) قال الإمام الزرنوجي رحمه الله ما وصل من وصل إلا بالحرمة، وما سقط من سقط إلا بترك الحرمة (Ta’limul Muta’allim of Imam Zarnuji (rahimahullah), pg.46, ibid) Here are a few examples of those who succeeded: Imam Abu Hanifah (rahimahullah) said: ما مددت رجلي نحو دار أستاذي حماد بن أبي سليمان إجلالاً له، وكان بين داره وداري سبع سكك “I never stretched my leg in the direction of the house of my teacher, Hammad ibn Abi Sulaiman, although I was seven blocks away from his house” (‘Uqudul Jumman; Adabul Ikhtilaf fi masailil ‘ilmi wad din, pg. 172 and Ma’alim irshadiyyah, pg.172) Imam Shafi’i (rahimahullah) says: “When I arrived in Madinah, I saw the reverence and awe that Imam Malik (rahimahullah) commanded. This increased my respect for him to an extent that at times while in his presence I would turn the page as gently as possible out of fear that I may disturb him” (ibid) The student of Imam Shafi’i; Imam Rabi’ ibn Sulaiman (rahimahumallah) says: “By Allah! I had such respect for Imam Shafi’i that I never had the courage to even drink water in his presence.” (ibid) This reminds me of a narration in Sahih Muslim (Hadith:317) in which Sayyiduna ‘Amr ibn ‘As (radiyallahu ‘anhu) states: “I never stared at the face of Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) out of awe for him, and therefore cannot describe him fully” The Ripple effect My Esteemed Teacher, Shaykh Muhammad ‘Awwamah (may Allah protect him) writes: “Those who sit in the company of the ‘Ulama will definitely learn to respect them” “One who never acquired knowledge from the ‘Ulama, and didn’t spend abundant time with them, and hasn’t learnt how to respect them, how could he understand the value of the ‘Ulama?! For such a person to speak or write against the ‘Ulama in a disrespectful manner is not surprising..” (Adabul ikhtilaf, pg.172 and Ma’alim irshadiyyah, pg.172) It is therefore imperative for us stick to the company of dignified people, or else we risk losing our own respect. Respect for their associates Imam Zarnuji (rahimahullah) writes: “Part of respect for one’s teacher is to show respect to the teacher’s children and other associates. The author of Al-Hidayah (A higher book of Hanafi fiqh) mentioned that one of the ‘Ulama of Bukhara was seated in the masjid while delivering a lesson. During the lesson he kept standing for short intervals. When he was asked about this he replied: “My Teachers’ son is playing with other kids on the road and he sometimes runs past the door of the Masjid, so I stand for him out of respect for my teacher!” (Ta’limul Muta’allim; see Ma’alim Irshadiyyah of Shaykh ‘Awwamah, pg. 232 and Husn Adab of Moulana Habibur Rahman Al-A’zami) A Recent Lesson The following incident is among the first lessons of adab that I learnt from my Respected Teacher, Shaykh Muhammad ‘Awwamah (may Allah allow me to continue benefiting from him): “I (Shaykh ‘Awwamah) once visited the late Mufti Mahmudul Hasan Al Gangohi (rahimahullah) when he was visiting Madinah Munawwarah. As the time of Magrib salah got closer, someone asked Mufti Mahmud (rahimahullah) if he needed to perform wudu before the salah. Mufti sahib (rahimahullah) replied: كيف أجالس هذا العالم وأنا على غير وضوء؟ How could I sit in the company of this ‘Alim without already being in the state of wudu?! After relating this, Shaykh (may Allah protect him) expressed his humility saying: “I don’t deserve this but look at the respect of this senior ‘Alim.” Note It was a common habit of my Honourable Teacher to personally visit the senior ‘Ulama whenever he learnt of their arrival in Madinah Munawwarah. Despite him being a senior himself… Even the Animals have respect Shaykh Muhammad ‘Awwamah (may Allah protect him) writes: “You may be surprised to hear that even Animals have respect for seniors.” Shaykh then cited the verse of the Quran which mentions the address of the ant in the era of Nabi Sulayman (‘alaihis salam): “Let not Sulayman and his army trample you unknowingly” (Surah Naml, verse: 18) He says: “due to the respect of the ant, it sought an excuse for the army by saying that if they do trample you it will be unintentional!” (Adabul ikhtilaf, pg.193) Contempt to those who were disrespectful Once Imam Ahmad ibn Hambal (rahimahullah) angrily reprimanded a reliable scholar for his disrespect to Imam ‘Abdur Rahman ibn Mahdi (rahimahullah) with the words: مالك ويلك ولذكر الأئمة “What is the matter with you?! Woe on to you for saying (such disrespectful things) about the Imams!” (Adabul ikhtilaf, pg.155) Ibn ‘Asakir (rahimahullah) once heard one of his teachers being disrespectful towards the scholars of the past. He said to his teacher: إنما نحترمك ما احترمت الأئمة “I will only respect you as long as you maintain respect for the Imams!” (Adabul ikhtilaf, pg.155) When Imam Muslim (rahimahullah) heard derogatory statements from his teacher, Muhammad ibn Yahya Zhuhli (rahimahullah) concerning his other teacher; Imam Bukhari (rahimahullah), He (Imam Muslim) immediately got up and left the gathering. He later returned to Imam Zhuhli all the narrations that he had acquired from him. (Hadyus sari, pg.685) We will follow respect, wherever it takes us…. Are we equal? Some people use the following slogan to legitamise their disrespect with the earlier scholars: هم رجال ونحن رجال “We are men like them” This is a sign of extreme ignorance. A slight look at history and the biographies of the pious predecessors will easily show that there is no comparison between us and them whatsoever. The great Historian, biographer and Muhaddith; ‘Allamah Dhahabi (rahimahullah) writes: “There is no senior Muhaddith in my era (the 700s A.H.) that can match the knowledge of those in the earlier times” (Tazkiratul Huffaz, pg.628) He also writes in the biography of Imam Al Ismai’ily (rahimahullah): “I was astounded at the memory of this imam, and I have concluded that the latter day scholars have no hope of catching up with the earlier ones (the Mutaqaddimun) (Tazkiratul Huffaz, pg.948) Al-Muhaddith Al-‘Alai (rahimahullah) has also said: “none after them could match them or even come close!” (Fathul Mugheeth, vol.2 pg.102) Conclusion The above are a few drops from an ocean full of lessons on this topic. Respect seems so distant in our era; an era full of unpleasant surprises! Moreover, it is somehow much easier for people to be disrespectful online, since they find themselves in an uncontrolled environment. Do not fall into this hole, it’s bottomless!! Let’s all take lesson from what has been discussed above . May Allah Ta’ala guide us too. Amin. al-miftah

Whirlwind of Life It is human nature to look for stability in life. We want stable respectable grades, a stable reliable job, a stable upper-class house and a stable branded car. We also want stable youthful looks. And what about stable relationships? Yes please. It’s funny though that we look for stability living on a planet that is literally hanging in mid-vacuum; holding on to the sun by a mere theoretical concept known as the gravitational pull – no strings attached. And as is the way of nature, it always wins. Despite our momentous efforts, we do end up not having stability in life. Our careers go into spiral. Sometimes we are rich, sometimes not-so-rich. Once upon a time we are dazzling with beauty, fast-forward a couple of decades and we are old and wrinkly. Life and death are themselves unstable. Kids come and change our lives, while loved ones bid us farewells. Sometimes we want a certain thing but, no matter what we do, we can’t seem to get it. And at times we do everything in our power to avoid a certain thing, and end up with exactly that. Life is unstable. It is not always how we plot and plan. It is a journey into the unknown; who knows what will happen next? And yet it is this unknowingness of life – this thrill of the suspense that the next chapter holds – which makes it all the more exciting and worth living. Do not worry that your life is turning upside down. How do you know that the side you are used to is better than the one to come? –Maulana Rumi (rah) A Zaynab Academy Online Student Lahore.

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Pearls of Wisdom: No.48 “Food for the Soul” SUBJECT: SHAITAAN(SATAN): “Our open enemy!” Allah, The Most Exalted, says: “O You who believe! Enter absolutely into peace (Islam). Do not follow in the footsteps of satan. He is an outright enemy to you.” (Quran: 2:208) The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) is reported to have said: “Shaitaan places his throne upon water; then sends detachments (for creating dissension); one of them comes and says: I did not spare so and so until I sowed the seed of discord between him and his father or between him and his mother or his brothers. Then he (Shaitan) says: you did nothing. They will be made up with one another. Another one comes and says: I did not spare so and so until I sowed the seed of discord between him and his wife. The Shaitan goes near him and says: ‘You have done well. And He then embraces him and says: You are so and so.” (Hadith Muslim) Note: Shaitaan’s master plan is to distract us from obedience to Allah Ta’ala. Shaitaan’s attacks comes in various forms from leading one disbelief, committing shirk (associating partners to Allah), introducing innovations in Islam and committing sins. Allah the Most Exalted has however granted us various means of protection f rom the evil of Shaitaan in the form of du’as (prayers) of protection and seeking His refuge from Shaitaan. Don’t ever feel despondent on being led astray by Shaitaan as he would hope you would give up and fail. If you have been deceived then repent and return to Allah Ta’ala.The next time he reminds you of your past, remind him of your future! www.eislam.co.za

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How My Aunt’s Refusal to Remove Her Hijab Saved My Family’s Lives by Marwa Atik In 1979 my grandfather made the decision to leave his home in Syria and start a new life the U.S. The plan was that my grandfather would come to California first and then my grandmother would follow along with their 7 children. Their American Airlines Flight #191 reservations included a stop in New York then a connection in Chicago before finally arriving in California. They landed in New York first. All immigrants first had to apply for a green card before their next destination. My aunt Hala had recently put on the hijab. When it came time for her photo, they asked my aunt to remove her hijab and she said NO. They consistently informed her that she would not be able to move to America or go to their next flight until she took this photo but she was steadfast and insisted on her rights. By now my grandmother became impatient, having flown half-way across the globe and having spent close to their life savings on these tickets, she did not want to miss the next flight out to California. My grandmother pleaded and told her to remove it and to do what the immigration officers told her to do, but my aunt continued to refuse. They called her into the back and she told them It doesn’t matter how many people you call in, I will not remove my hijab for this photo. After the officers called their supervisors and three brutal hours later, they finally released my aunt and allowed her to keep her hijab on for the photo. However, by then it was too late, the entire family had missed their connecting flight and they had to purchase new plane tickets and stay overnight in New York. Furious and upset, my grandmother lectured my aunt the whole flight to California. By the time they finally arrived to LAX California, my grandfather greeted them with the biggest hug and was in tears. He kept repeating “Hamdulilah (praise be to God) you’re alive! Hamdulilah you’re alive!” And they were like, well yeah why wouldn’t we be?? He said, “The original flight you were supposed to get on crashed, and all 271 passengers died.” crash This photo was captured immediately after American Airlines Flight 191 crashed. They were all in shock and overwhelmed; everyone was brought to tears. Below is my aunt’s passport photo. This photo is a symbol of my aunt’s bravery and love for her hijab that saved my families life. We would have never started the first generation in America, if it wasn’t for her sticking up for what she believed in. hijab passport photo This story is an important reminder for me that everything in life is written and one should always be principled and stick to their beliefs no matter the situation you’re put in. Allah was testing her belief and if what you believe in is right, then Allah will never forget about you. ❤️ Stories like this make me fall in love with the hijab all over again. Her hijab saved her life and in turn my family’s lives. It’s a reminder that your hijab is like a relationship, you have to always remind yourself of the strengths and nourish it to keep the love for it alive. If you forget its importance, then you forget yourself. With all the islamophobia going around, I just wanted to remind people the importance of staying strong in your deen, no matter what anyone thinks or says. ilmfeed.com/how-my-aunts-refusal-to-remove-her-hijab-save...

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Duaa when Experiencing Fear at Night If one experiences fear at night, he should recite the following duaa: أَعُوذُ بِكَلِمَاتِ اللهِ التَّامَّاتِ الَّتِي لاَ يُجَاوِزُهُنَّ بَرٌّ وَلاَ فَاجِرٌ مِن شَرِّ مَا يَنْزِلُ مِنَ السَّمَاءِ وَمَا يَعْرُجُ فِيهَا وَمِنْ شَرِّ مَا ذَرَأَ فِي الأرْضِ وَمَا يَخْرُجُ مِنهَا وَمِنْ شَرِّ فِتَنِ اللَّيْلِ وَفِتَنِ النَّهَارِ وَمِنْ شَرِّ طَوَارِقِ اللَّيْلِ وَالنَّهَارِ إلَّا طَارِقًا يَطْرُقُ بِخَيْرٍ يَا رَحْمن I seek protection in the complete words of Allah Ta’ala, which neither a pious person nor a sinner can surpass; from the evil of what descends from the sky and what ascends in it, and from the evil of what He created in the earth and what comes out of it, and from the evil of the trials of the night and the trials of the day, and from the evil of those creations that come out during the night and day, except for those who come with good, O the Most Merciful. عن خالد بن الوليد أنه شكا إلى رسول الله صلى الله عليه و سلم فقال : إني أجد فزعا في الليل فقال : ألا أعلمك كلمات علمنيهن جبريل عليه السلام وزعم أن عفريتا من الجن يكيدني فقال : أعوذ بكلمات الله التامات التي لا يجاوزهن بر ولا فاجر من شر ما ينزل من السماء وما يعرج فيها ومن شر ما ذرأ في الأرض وما يخرج منها ومن شر فتن الليل وفتن النهار ومن شر طوارق الليل والنهار إلا طارقا يطرق بخير يا رحمن. رواه الطبراني وفيه المسيب بن واضح وقد وثقه غير واحد وضعفه جماعة وكذلك الحسن بن علي المعمري وبقية رجاله رجال الصحيح. (مجمع الزوائد رقم 17066) Hadhrat Khaalid bin Waleed (Radhiyallahu Anhu) reports that on one occasion he complained to Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) that he was experiencing fear during the night. Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) said: “Should I not teach you a duaa which Hadhrat Jibraaeel (Alayhis Salaam) had taught me to recite, at the time he informed me that an evil Jinn was planning to harm me.” Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) then recited the following Duaa أَعُوذُ بِكَلِمَاتِ اللهِ التَّامَّاتِ الَّتِي لاَ يُجَاوِزُهُنَّ بَرٌّ وَلاَ فَاجِرٌ مِن شَرِّ مَا يَنْزِلُ مِنَ السَّمَاءِ وَمَا يَعْرُجُ فِيهَا وَمِنْ شَرِّ مَا ذَرَأَ فِي الأرْضِ وَمَا يَخْرُجُ مِنهَا وَمِنْ شَرِّ فِتَنِ اللَّيْلِ وَفِتَنِ النَّهَارِ وَمِنْ شَرِّ طَوَارِقِ اللَّيْلِ وَالنَّهَارِ إلَّا طَارِقًا يَطْرُقُ بِخَيْرٍ يَا رَحْمن ihyauddeen.co.za