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Are exercises from yoga permissible? Hanafi Fiqh > Darulihsan.com # Q: There is a group of ladies in our area that have a woman trainer to come home and do exercises with them. This lady intends on introducing some other exercises with them that originate from ‘Yoga’.I know that yoga originates from the hindu culture, however they intend to use only the exercises/stretching techniques from yoga and not to practice yoga itself. There will be no meditation, humming and all the other aspects of yoga, just exercises. Will this be permissible? A: This is acceptable, provided that the conditions mentioned in the question are fully upheld and no other un-Islamic practices are found. Mufti Shafiq Jakhura Iftaa Department, Darul Ihsan Islamic Services Centre I concur with the answer: Mufti Zubair Bayat Ameer, Darul Ihsan Islamic Services Centre Source: http://islamqa.org/hanafi/darulihsan/76738

wa'alaykumus salaam Yes if its live the sajdah needs to be done.................... Question Is it necessary to make Sajdah-e-tilawat when listening to live taraweeh over the radio and an aayat of Sajdah is recited? Answer Assalāmu `alaikum Warahmatullāhi Wabrakatuh, Yes, sajdah tilawah will be wajib (compulsory) in such a case. (Fatawa Mahmudiya: 7/472, 473; Fatawa Usmani: 1/497; Al-Ikhtiyaar: 1/115; Tahtawi: 484) And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best Mufti Faizal Riza, Australia. Checked and Approved by, Mufti Ebrahim Desai. Source: http://islamqa.org/hanafi/askimam/5732

Q. Pls advise if you hear an ayaat of Sajda e tilawat on radio or tape recorder Is it waajib to make sajda for that (Query published as received) A. No. Sajdah Tilawah does not become compulsory by listening to a pre-recorded recitation of the Qur’an. (Ahsanul Fatawa) And Allah Knows Best Mufti Suhail Tarmahomed Fatwa Department Jamiatul Ulama (KZN) Council of Muslim Theologians

By Abdur Rahmaan Umar “I love you, mom,” whispered Yusuf as he wrapped the soft pashmina shawl around his mother’s shoulders. The vibrant peach contrasted with the dark rings that had grown under her eyes lately, but their brightness had not faded. Her eyes lit up as she stroked the delicate embroidery on the edge of the shawl, “And this…Yusuf?” Yusuf looked at her with the excitement of a young boy unpacking his first bicycle, “Wait ma…there’s more,” he cried, as he removed a burgundy jewellery box. Presenting it in front of his mother, like they were the crown jewels, he gingerly lifted the lid to reveal a string of exquisite cultured pearls, delicately strung together with small black pearls breaking the shimmer of the white pearls. “Yusuf!” exclaimed his mother, her eyes brimming, “What’s all this?” Yusuf stepped back and looked at his mother holding the pearl necklace close to her chest, admiring it, “Mom, always wanted a pearl necklace….” “But it must have cost you a small fortune,” said Saffiyah as she held the pearls up to the light, studying the delicate changes of colour as she turned the necklace, “Why now…what’s special?” “It’s my mother’s day!” he beamed. “Er..,” began Saffiyah as she craned her neck to look at the calendar behind her, “But it’s not mother’s day. Not for a while, yet?” a puzzled look settling on her face. “I didn’t say it was Mother’s day,” replied Yusuf, “I said it was MY mother’s day. But let me explain….” “You remember I told you about Nasser who recently moved here from the coast?” Saffiyah nodded in acknowledgement. “Last night I met him at Sheikh’s program and asked him why he always begged sheikh for duas. I just found it strange that he would always insist that Sheikh make dua for him. He gave me an odd reply – he asked me if my mother was alive, and if I had fifteen minutes. I confirmed that I had both. We sat at the back of the masjid and he told me his story.” Yusuf paused to pour some tea, adding a sugar to each cup, handing one to his mother he continued, “Nasser told me that since his door of dua (supplication) had closed a long time ago, he had to seek another door for dua. Not understanding, I asked him what he meant. He was silent for a long time, and I thought perhaps I said something wrong, but he just looked at me and smiled. Wiping a tear from his eye he told me that his mother passed away when he was only five years old. He said that he could still remember the smell of her hair after she washed it, but remembered little else.” Yusuf watched his mother sipping her tea and noticed just how wrinkled her hands had become, the gold wedding ring still sat gracefully on her ring finger. She always took pride in grooming her nails, buffing them to a perfect shine. “After Nasser’s mother passed away he lived in the care of his aunties. They were good to him and cared for him as one of their own. They bought him what he needed and he had much of what he needed. Then he told me “You know, Joe, no one can replace the embrace of a mother. And no one can replace the dua (prayer) of a mother. I lost that dua a long time ago.” Then I thought of all the duas you make for me - how often when I rush out of the house you always say, “Yusuf, slow down, Allah Ta'ala be with you!” “Allah Hafiz.” “Yusuf, may Allah Ta'ala make your children the coolness of your eye.” “Ma…I never really cherished those duas until I heard Nasser’s story,” said Yusuf, dabbing his eye with a tissue, “I never knew that those were treasures beyond measure. And then it made some sense to me of what Sheikh said when he quoted Abdulla Ibn 'Abbas (RA), "If any Muslim obeys Allah regarding his parents, Allah will open two gates of the Garden for him. If there is only one parent, then one gate will be opened. If one of them is angry, then Allah will not be pleased with him until that parent is pleased with him." “And when Nasser told me – ‘Joe (as Yusuf was referred to by his friends), you know, I will never be able to call anyone in this world Mum, and I will never know the embrace of a mother. You still have it, Joe, value it, treasure it,’ I realised that what Allah had favoured me with was something so special that I couldn’t just celebrate it once a year and call it mother’s day. I decided that from now MY Mother’s day will be Every Day! - Yesterday, today and tomorrow will all be mother’s day. I can never repay you, but I know the heart of a mother asks for no repayment. And…if I can do nothing else for my mother’s day then I will at least thank Allah that he allowed my door of dua to be open for one more day.” “Forgive me ma…..” Yusuf choked, “I need to do so much more for you….” Saffiyah clasped his hands and stroked his face, “You are a good son, Yusuf, Allah Ta'ala will grant you lots of goodness in this world and the next.” eislam

Aameen!!

wa'alaykumus salaam ww sis are you close to where this is happening? May Allah ta'ala protect and help the Muslims of BD and around the world! An 'aalim we know was recently there visiting family and he got arrested and detained for a few weeks ...he was showing my husband the bruises!

Question What is the definition of Sunnah. What are the types of sunnah. Is there any type of sunnah if we don’t follow resulted in committing sins. Please give example. What are the rulings in Sharia about Qadaa prayer? Do we have to make up for all the missed prayer in our lifetime. Please give the reference of Hadith to answer this question. Answer In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful Assalaamu `alaykum waRahmatullahi Wabarakatuh According to Shariah, the definition of Sunnah is “A prophetic way of life”. Sunnah is categorized into two Sunan Huda Sunan Zawaaid SUNAN HUDA Are those practices of Nabi (صلى الله عليه وسلم) that relate to the matters of Deen. An example of Sunan Huda is the prophetic manner, manner of performing Salaah etc Sunan e Muakadah (those practices that were not left out by Nabi (صلى الله عليه وسلم) except on a few occasions) falls in the category of Sunan Huda A person leaving out this type of Sunnah will be sinful. SUNAN ZAWAA’ID Are those practices of Nabi (صلى الله عليه وسلم) that relate to his personal habits and likes. For example, he liked to eat a certain type of food, the type of clothes he wore or the manner he walked, talked etc. If a person practices upon this type of Sunnah, he/she will be rewarded and one will not be sinful for leaving out this type of Sunnah. Source: http://islamqa.org/hanafi/askimam/1698

It is a myth that women in today’s society are liberated. From the stone age through to the space age, women have been incarcerated in a prison of oppression and discrimination. Advancements in the fields of science and technology have failed in unearthing the true status and value of women. We have transcended and penetrated the peripheries of space, yet fallen short of emancipating women from the bounds of exploitation and mistreatment. What kind of freedom can there be when a woman cannot walk down the street without every aspect of her physical self being “checked out”? What kind of freedom can there be when a woman is just an ‘advertisement’, employed only to boost the revenue of voracious, self centred and greedy men? Would you define being subjected to a mirror daily for hours on end as liberty? Today’s culture resonates and echoes the values and notions of the civilisations in the shadows of history, where women were nothing but a tool or a toy. Reading popular teenage magazines, you can instantly find out what kind of body image is “in” or “out.” and if you have the “wrong” body type, well, then you’re just going to have to change it, aren’t you? After all, there is no way that you can be overweight and still be beautiful. Look at any advertisement, is a woman being used to sell the product? How old is she? How attractive is she? What is she wearing? More often than not, that woman will be no older than her early 20s, taller, slimmer and more attractive than average, dressed in skimpy clothing. In the sphere of this unjust culture, only that woman is beautiful if she has the ‘looks’, whereas in the scope of islam, every woman can be beautiful. Beauty isn’t what the eyes behold, true beauty is good character and morals. Where the sight of this culture ends, the vision of islam commences. In this culture, eyes are glued to the exterior, whilst Islam’s spotlights are beamed at the interior. In Islamic principles and belief, a woman is likened to a precious jewel or to a sweet smelling and attractive flower, everything about her radiating rays of beauty. Islam shields her by enjoining her to wrap herself in the hijaab, so that this fence wards off the swamps of flies and impure creatures to pinch and steal the nectar of this exquisite flower. This small piece of fabric labelled as a hijaab has salvaged and rescued women from the tyranny of hollow concepts and opinions. Ladies dressed in the hijaab have been liberated from the hungry and judgemental eyes of onlookers. They have rocketed from the world of toys and tools to float freely in the galaxy of value and significance. Women who were once submerged in the dark oceans of peer pressure and ……… have surfaced in the submersible known as hijaab, breathing in at will the air of freedom. This fabric is a safety blanket, if lost all is lost. A woman revels in the realm of this fabric, where she has no worry regarding how people will judge her exterior. She is appreciated for her gentleness and soft nature, praised and treasured for her modesty and piety. The hijaab extends the promise of happiness and serenity in a time when women are hoping for salvation from depression and dejection. Islam has valued women with such a figure, that the money of this world can’t match. They aren’t toys for men to drool over, but the backbones of society. The hijaab ensures that women aren’t a commodity available on the market or on an auction waiting to be sold cheaply to the highest bidder. The hijaab has gifted women with a new purpose of life. They are now free from the shackles of worrying about the view of the creation, and now can truly turn their attention to their Creator. This simple piece of clothing inhibits extravagance and lavishness, thus crowning a lady with simplicity in this life and prosperity in the life to come. The hijaab shelters women from the tidal waves of fashion, women dressed in hijaab can never be ‘out of date’. This in itself dissolves so many worries and concerns of clinging onto the ‘trend of the time’. Women can now walk into a room stripped of the fear of rivalry and competition in appearance. Whereas those deprived of the hijaab are prone to jealousy and rancour as their only objective is to outclass and exceed peers in appearances and looks, which in itself structures a hypocritical social order, wherein friends are venomous snakes, lurking in the dark awaiting the moment to strike. The hijaab advocates equality, hence sowing the seeds of love and mutual compassion amongst female cotemporaries and friends. The hijaab unites the hearts of women by weaving a common thread of modesty and chastity through their souls. It is a reality and a fact that women are the icons of liberty and freedom in the Islamic global village. With Compliments~Darul Fiqh.com http://darulfiqh.com/

Bismihi Ta'ala 1. Immediately upon awakening rub the face and the eyes with both palms in order to remove the effects of sleep. [shamaa`il Tirmidhi] 2. When the eyes open in the morning recite the Dua: 3. When awakening from sleep, clean the mouth with a Miswaak. [Musnad Ahmad, Abu Dawood] The use of the Miswaak should be repeated when making Wudhu. Using Miswaak upon awakening is a separate Sunnah. 4. When wearing one’s trousers, first put on the right leg, then the left one. When putting on a Kurta or shirt, first put on the right sleeve and then the left one. The same procedure should be followed when wearing a vest. When wearing a shoe, first put on the right shoe. When removing any garment or shoe, first remove the left, then the right. This is the Sunnah method when removing any garment from the body. [bukhari – Tirmidhi] 5. Before immersing the hands into any utensils, wash them thrice thoroughly. [Tirmidhi] From "BEAUTIFUL SUNNATS OF THE BELOVED NABI (SALLALLAAHU 'ALAYHI WASALLAM) By Hadhrat Moulana Shah Hakeem Muhammad Akhtar Saheb (Daamat Barakaatuhum) http://ahaadeeth-and-sunnah.blogspot.co.uk/2013/04/sunnats-upon-awakening.html

A Female Buddhists journey to Islam My Background before being a Muslimah My family and relatives are strict Buddhist. We are from the middle class of the society. My family’s nationality is a mix of Chinese and Thai. I was raised and trained to be a loyal Buddhist. As a young girl, I had supported the local temple, and I went to the temple quite often. Almost every day I would give charity to the monks as I believed that this is the way to enter paradise. Moreover, I was a good daughter and granddaughter. I used to take care and obey my parents and was good to all relatives. How did I become a Muslim? When my older sister graduated from Grade 9, she had a good chance to study in USA. She stayed with a Muslim family. They told my older sister so many things about life after death and Oneness of God.My sister embraced Islam. She used to write letters to me telling me to avoid eating pork as it is not good for health. I only read her letters, but I didn’t realize the importance of Islam and what she said to me. When I was in grade 10, I became more attached to the temple and supplicated to the Buddhist Statues. One day in the class, one thought just came to my mind about the statues, “Why I never get anything I have asked to these Gods?” However, I just ignored this thought. At the end of the semester, my parents sent me to USA for the summer camp and visiting my sister. I had only few days to stay with my sister with the Muslim family. I heard about life after death and oneness of God “Allah” from them. I believed what they told me was true but I didn’t yet accept Islam. During the summer camp, I heard someone in my group saying something bad about Islam. I didn’t like that, and I had an argument with that person. I felt like I wanted to protect Islam because it is a good religion. Finally, I just stopped the argument as we knew on one would win this argument. After summer camp was over, I went back to Thailand and continued my study until I graduated from High school. My parents wanted me to go with my father to visit my sister in the USA. So I had a chance again to go and stay there. Fortunately, everybody in this Muslim family had convinced my father to let me stay and study in USA . The family I lived with always spoke about the greatness of Allah and life after death. After a few days, I told my sister that I would like to be a Muslim. I was about 19 years old. My sister taught me the first and the second Kalimah. After that, I learned how to pray from my sister. I cried a lot because I wanted to be able to pray salaat like other Muslims. Every Sunday, the grandfather of this family took my sister and i to the masjid to learn how to read the Quran.The Muslim teacher there put me in the kindergarten class and learn few alphabets. I felt so ashamed to stay in the class as I was the oldest but knew nothing. I couldn’t express my difficulty to anyone and I couldn’t even communicate with other Muslim teachers there because my English was very poor and only few people understood me.Finally one Muslim sister taught me the basics of reading Quran (Alphabets and vowels). I wanted to learn more about Islam. I searched the internet and came across Mufti Taqi Uthmaani’s name.I got in touch with him and Alhamdulillah he sent me some books on Islam which were most valuable. I also found the website of Jamiatul Ulama, South Africa. Whenever I had any question/or needed any suggestion, I would send an email and waited for the reply eagerly. One Ramadhaan, I contacted the Jamiat.They suggested to me to contact Mufti Ebrahim Desai as he was in America. I sought advice and took Bay’ah from him. Whenever I needed any advices, I would contact Mufti Ebrahim Desai via email. Mufti Ebrahim Desai has helped me to have a better understanding of Islam and practice Islam. Life after returning home After I graduated from Associate Degree, I got scholarship offer from New York University to continue my bachelor degree. My parents didn’t allow me to go there and study because they wanted me to revert to Buddhism. I didn’t want to turn back to Buddhist anymore because I believed and loved Islam dearly. I thought too much about life after returning back to Bangkok, Thailand. For example: what should I do as I would face non-Muslim relatives and friends; what would I do there; would I pray and wear hijab; what food I would eat, I didn’t have any Muslim friends at all etc. Finally, I had to go back to Thailand. Life in Bangkok with my family was not easy at all. I had to face so many difficulties. I still wore the hijab but everyone was against me. My Imaan was weak and I stopped wearing HIjab. I rarely had a chance to connect with Mufti Ebrahim Desai. My parents ordered me to go to Laos and stayed there almost a year. Every day we had big arguments about me being a Muslim. I admit that I was weak. However, I didn’t abandon my prayer and fasting. I tried my best to eat Halal food. I couldn’t go anywhere as this place was not my hometown and I didn’t have money or car to go out without my parents’ permission. I was forced to dress up to look more beautiful for the public. I cried many times and made Dua that Allah helps me to practice Islam and make me a good Muslim. Alhamdulillah,once a Lao Muslim family sent me Halal food as they knew that I became a Muslim. I thought hard about what I should do to practice and follow the commandments of Allah.I asked my parents to return to Bangkok to continue with my studies. This is the only reason that I could use to return to Bangkok as I could do as I wish. Yes, my decision was right with the Help of Allah. Now I could wear the hijab, and I had Muslim friends. After marriage, I didn’t contact Mufti Ebrahim Desai.What I had learned from him while in America has been very valuable and carried me a long way. Mufti Ebrahim Desai sent me books which were and are more valuable than any of my belongings. Whenever some matters arose, my husband would come and consult with me as he knew that I learned from reliable Ulama. During previous years of my marriage, I still had so many difficulties but my Imaan was stronger and the love for Allah has been increasing. The love of Allah helped me to overcome many challenges of life.I feel being in touch with reliable Ulama is the greatest bounty for people like us who have very limited access to Islamic knowledge. Our Comments: Allah says ‘’When Allah opens up the heart of someone for Islam, that person is on light (guidance) from Allah’’. IdealWoman

Question: Is there any duas to be recited when one is worried and depressed? Answer:In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh. Take note of the following Hadith and the Du’aa of Rasulullaah (salallaahu ῾alayhi wasallam) كَانَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَدْعُو عِنْدَ الْكَرْبِ يَقُولُ “لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللَّهُ الْعَظِيمُ الْحَلِيمُ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللَّهُ رَبُّ السَّمَوَاتِ وَالْأَرْضِ وَرَبُّ الْعَرْشِ الْعَظِيمِ” Transliteration:-La ilaha illa Allah Al-’Azim, Al-’Halim, la ilaha illa Allah, Rabbul ‘arshil ‘Azim, la ilaha illa Allahu, Rabbus-Samawati wa rabbul ardi wa rabbul ‘arshi karim :Translation:-Whenever Prophet salallahu ῾alayh wasallam would face distress he would recite “There is no deity except Allah, The Mighty and Forbearing; There is no deity except Allah, Lord of the skies and the Earth and the Lord of the Mighty Throne And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best Checked and Approved by, Mufti Ebrahim Desai. (Sahih Bukhaari #6345)[1] [1] الجامع الصحيح للبخارى ، بَاب الدُّعَاءِ عِنْدَ الْكَرْبِ، رقم 6345)

I think we should write it and stipulate all the methods which make us happy sis : )

Q. How Islam belongs to the healing, some people claim that they have supernatural abilities to cure people without medical intervention – imposing of hands, reading any prayers. I know the woman who claims that she be able to heal people imposing of hands. What our religion says about it? (Query published as received) A. Allah has made this world such that whilst He alone is the controller of everything and everything revolves around His will, we are required to adopt the means to achieve these goals. The important thing is that the means adopted should be permissible and one’s belief should be focused, that despite adopting all the means, it is all dependent on the will and might of Allah. With regards to remedying ailments as well, the Shari’ah has encouraged that a person seeks treatment. In the Hadith, you will find many examples where the Prophet of Allah advised treatment of wounds and ailments. Sayyiduna Usamah bin Shurayk (Radiyallahu Anhu) reports that once, some Bedouins came to the Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) and asked him if they should adopt medical treatment for their ailments. The Prophet of Allah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) replied: “Adopt medical treatment. For indeed, Allah has provided a cure for every ailment besides old age” (Abu Dawood, Hadith #: 3855) So as you can see, the treatment of ailments and sickness is encouraged in Islam. However, the important point to remember is that only permissible methods can be adopted. The use of impermissible methods is prohibited and is of no benefit. This is why Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Mas’oud (Radiyallahu Anhu) said: “Definitely, Allah has not placed cure in treatment that he has declared unlawful for you” (Sahih al-Bukhari) With regards to the method of healing you have described in your question where people claim to be able to heal by supernatural powers, this is a dubious method of healing and should be abstained from. Yes, there are some methods which are permissible for example, Ruqyah (where verses of the Qur’an are recited as a means of treatment with the belief that cure can only be achieved by the will of Allah). But besides this, most other methods are dubious and hold impermissible elements. For an ordinary person to differentiate between which is permissible and which is not permissible in such methods of treatments is nearly impossible and therefore, I advise that all such treatments be abstained from. Furthermore, many of these so called “healers” are fraudsters and have no proper knowledge on this subject. Considering the facts above, a person should rather adopt alternate physical methods of treatment which are free from doubt. In the acute case of such treatment not being beneficial, a person should consult with a reliable and trustworthy Alim or Imam to direct him/her to a reliable healer who practices on the Qur’an and Sunnah. And Allah Knows Best Mufti Suhail Tarmahomed Fatwa Department Jamiatul Ulama (KZN) Council of Muslim Theologians

1- Beautiful Reception After returning from work, school, travel, or whatever has separated you, begin with a good greeting. * Meet him with a cheerful face. * Beautify and perfume yourself. * Start with good news and delay any bad news until he has rested. * Receive him with loving and yearning sentences. * Make hard efforts for excellence of the food & having it ready on time. 2- Beautify and Soften the Voice * For your husband only, it shouldnt be used in front of non-mahram men (men who can marry you if you were unmarried). 3- Smelling Good and Physical Beautification * Taking good care of your body and fitness. * Put on nice and attractive clothes and perfumes. * Bath regularly and, after the monthly period, remove any blood traces or bad smells. * Avoid that your husband observes you in dirty clothes or rough shape. * Avoid prohibited types of ornamentation, e.g. tattoo. * Use the types of perfumes, colours, and clothes that the husband likes. * Change hair style, perfumes, etc. from time to time. * However with these things you should avoid excessiveness and, of course, only act as such in front of mahram men and women. 4- Intercourse * Hasten for intercourse when your husband feels compulsion for it. * Keep your body clean and smelling good as possible including cleaning yourself after intercourse. * Exchange loving phrases with your husband. * Leave your husband to fully satisfy his desire. * Choose suitable times and good occasions for exciting your husband, and encouraging him to do intercourse, e.g. after returning from a travel, weekends, etc. 5- Satisfaction With What Allah Has Allotted * You shouldnt be depressed because your husband is poor or works in a simple job. * You should look at poor, sick, and handicapped people and remember Allah for all that was given to you. * You should remember that real wealth lays in Iman and piety. 6- Indifference to Worldly Things 7- Appreciation * You should not consider this world as your hope and interest. * You should not ask your husband for many unnecessary things. * Asceticism does not mean not to enjoy what is good and permissible (Halal), but it means that one should look forward to the hereafter and utilize whatever Allah gave them to achieve paradise (Jannah). * Encourage your husband to reduce expenses and save some money in order to give charity and feed poor and needy people. * By the saying of the prophet, the majority of people in hell were women because they were ungrateful and deny the good done to them. * The result of being grateful is that your husband will love you more and will do his best to please you in more ways. * The result of being ungrateful is that your husband will be disappointed and will start asking himself: Why should I do good to her, if she never appreciates? 8- Devotion and Loyalty 9- Compliance to Him * In particular in times of calamities in your husband’s body or business, e.g. an accident or a bankruptcy * Supporting him through your own work, money, and properties if needed. * In all what he commands you, unless it is prohibited (Haram). * In Islam, the husband is the leader of the family, and the wife is his support and consultant. 10-Pleasing Him If He Is Angry * First off, try to avoid what will guarantee his anger. * But if it happens that you can’t, then try to appease him as follows: 1- If you are mistaken, then apologize. 2- If he is mistaken then: – Keep still instead of arguing or – Yield your right or – Wait until he is no longer angry and discuss the matter peacefully with him. 3- If he was angry because of external reasons then: – Keep silent until his anger goes – Find excuses for him, e.g. tired, problems at work, someone insulted him – Do not ask many questions and insist on knowing what happened, e.g. 1) You should tell me what happened? 2) I must know what made you so angry. 3) You are hiding something, and I have the right to know. 11-Guardianship While He is Absent * Protect yourself from any prohibited relationships. * Keep the secrets of the family, particularly bedroom talks and things that the husband doesn’t like other people to know. * Take care of the house and children. * Take care of his money and properties. * Do not go out of your house without his permission and put on full hijab. * Refuse people whom he does not like to come over. * Do not allow any non-mahram man to be alone with you in any place. * Be good to his parents and relatives in his absence. 12- Showing Respect for his Family and Friends * You should welcome his guests and try to please them, especially his parents. * You should avoid problems as much as you can with his relatives. * You should avoid putting him is a position where he had to choose between his mother and his wife. * Show good hospitality for his guests by arranging a nice place for them to sit in, perfection of food, welcoming their wives, etc. * Encourage him to visit his relatives and invite them to your home. * Phone his parents and sisters, send letters to them, buy gifts for them, support them in calamities, etc.. 13- Admirable Jealousy * Jealousy is a sign for wife’s love for her husband but it should be kept within the limits of Islam, e.g. not insulting or backbiting others, disrespecting them, etc.. * You should not follow or create unfounded doubts. 14-Patience and Emotional Support * Be patient when you face poverty and strained circumstances. * When you face calamities and disasters that may happen to you, your husband, your children, relatives or properties, e.g. diseases, accidents, death, etc. * When facing hardships in Dawah (imprisonment, getting fired, arrested, etc.), be patient and encourage him to keep on the path of Allah and remind him of paradise. * When he mistreats you, counteract his ill-treatment by good treatment 15- Support in Obedience to Allah, Dawah and Jihad * Cooperate with your husband and remind him of different obligatory and voluntary worships. * Encourage him to pray at night. * Listen and reciting the Quran individually and with your husband. * Listen to Islamic tapes and songs individually and with your husband. * Remember Allah much, particularly after Fajr and before Maghrib. * Share in arranging Dawah activities for women and children. * Learn Islamic rules (ahkam) and good manners (adab) for women. * Support your husband activities by encouraging him, offering wise opinions, soothing his pains, etc. * Yielding some of your rights and a part of your time with your husband for Dawah. * Encourage him to go for Jihad when needed and remind him that you and children will be in the preservation of Allah 16-Good Housekeeping * Keep it clean, decorated and well arranged. * Change house arrangements from time to time to avoid boredom. * Perfect of food and prepare healthy foods. * Learn all the necessary skills for managing the house, e.g. sewing. * Learn how to raise children properly and in an Islamic way. 17-Preservation of Finances and the Family * Do not spend from his money, even for charity without his permission unless you are sure that he agrees on this. * Protect his house, car, etc. while he is absent. * Keep the children in good shape, clean clothes, etc. Take care of their nutrition, health, education, manners, etc. Teach them Islam and tell them the stories of the Prophets and companions. With Compliments~ Darul Fiqh http://idealwoman.org/2012/17-ways-to-keep-your-husband-happy

The following fatwa is the most detailed: # Hanafi Fiqh > Askmufti.co.za Q: Is yoga permissible for Muslims? A: Yoga is a Sanskrit word (an ancient Indian language) meaning to join, or union. This was the name given to an art which originated in the Hindu religion, wherein special spiritual exercises were done to give enlightenment to the soul and to ‘join’ the spiritual self with God. Yoga as a means to enlightenment is central to Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism and has had some influence on other religious and spiritual practices. Ancient Hindu texts establishing the basis for yoga include the Upanishads (old Hindu scriptures), Yoga Sutras of Patanjali, the Bhagavad Gita (the famous Hindu Bible), the Hatha Yoga Pradipika and many others, which specify the criteria of having successfully mastered a particular yoga technique. The spiritual goals of yoga are regarded as inseparable from the religions of which yoga forms a part. In other words, Yoga originated as an inseparable part of the Hindu religion to derive spiritual fulfillment. All records and writings are unanimous that Yoga is based in, and originates from the Hindu religion. The postures adopted in Yoga such as the lotus position for example, were positions Hindus adopted when meditating in front of their deities and idols. In fact, the Hindu Bible, The Bhagavad Gita teaches the basics of Yoga and the philosophy behind it. A system or discipline that originates from an idolatrous religion, and comprises postures that resemble the idol worshippers is not permissible in Islam. The Messenger of Allah (alayhis salaam) abolished the ways and practices of ignorant times. (Bukhari). He also forbade the imitation of idol-worshippers, even in acts not related to worship. It appears in an authentic hadith of Imam Tirmizhi (RA) that once the Sahaaba were out in jihad with Rasoolullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam), when they came across a tree on which the Pagan Arabs used to hang their weapons as a symbolic act. The Sahaaba thought it a good idea to do the same, so they mentioned this to the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam). The Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) expressed his amazement at this request, stating that this is tantamount to following in the footsteps of the Pagans. He forbade them from doing so. This hadith proves that imitation the ways of other religions in symbolic acts is not permissible. What was wrong in hanging weapons on a particular tree if the Sahaaba wanted to rest somewhere? The fact this practice was symbolic to an un-Islamic culture or faith made it unacceptable. We, therefore, can apply the same principle to the art of Yoga. In fact Yoga is deeply rooted in the Hindu religion, and today Hindus still practice this art as part of their religious ritual and worship. On these grounds Yoga would not be permissible in Islam. The Religion of Islam has its own form of spiritual discipline and meditation, and that is zikr of Allah and Salah. The Auliyaa of Allah (in Tasawwuf) also describe forms of meditation using the concepts in the Quran and Hadith. Muslims should resort to these types of meditation to seek closeness to Allah and purification of the soul. Mufti Siraj Desai

Assalaamu 'alaykum So as not to cause confusion I have looked at a good number of Q/A's by respected Ulama from various Iftaa sites. There are two opinions: 1. That it is permissible as long as none of the haram aspects are applied to the yoga exercises: "if the yoga consists in the form of ‘muraqabah’ practiced in the science of tasawuff, then it will be allowed. Maulana Ashraf Ali Thanwi (RA) has said ‘to concentrate strongly on a given subject for someone so that a person starts feeling the results inside him, to visualise the matter is called meditation’. At another point, Maulana Ashraf Ali Thanwi (RA) has said ‘to turn the thoughts with deep concentration towards Allah and His divine attributes or any such subject and to visualise it from the inner depth of your heart is called meditation’. (Tasawwuf and Character Building p.54)" 2. It is impermissible (and this is the more popular opinion) as it is deeply rooted in the Hindu religion: "Yoga, according to the World Book lexicon is, ‘A system of Hindu religious philosophy that requires intense mental and physical discipline as a means of attaining with the universal spirit.’ (World Book p. 2421)" "Yoga is a Sanskrit word (an ancient Indian language) meaning to join, or union. This was the name given to an art which originated in the Hindu religion, wherein special spiritual exercises were done to give enlightenment to the soul and to ‘join’ the spiritual self with God.Yoga as a means to enlightenment is central to Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism and has had some influence on other religious and spiritual practices" I found that there are more opinions against Yoga. and Allah ta'ala knows best

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Q. i`m in the service industry whereby i physically go out on install in peoples homes, the bulk of my clientele are none muslim and thus they have dogs as pets, many a time there dogs jump on me etc, my question is what is the permissibility salaah for me as i was told that a dog has touched my clothing etc thus salaah cannot be made, can i were an overall or a garment over my garment and if the dog touches the overall, at the time of salaah can i remove the overall and wear the clothes beneath the overall and perform salaah? please reply asap as my salaah is being affected negatively. (Query published as received) A. A dog merely touching you or your clothing does not make the affected area impure. Yes, if the dog's saliva or sweat latches onto you, the soiled area will be impure and it will be necessary to wash this part of the clothing before performing Salaah. As an alternative you have suggested, you may wear an overall so if it does become soiled with the saliva or sweat of the dog, you may remove it and perform Salaah with your usual clothing that you have under. The clothing you have under will not be impure as long as the saliva of the dog did not penetrate though the overall. And Allah Knows Best Mufti Suhail Tarmahomed Fatwa Department Jamiatul Ulama (KZN) Council of Muslim Theologians

Question: Is there any SUNNAT of cutting nails? i.e: Is there any day preferred to cut nails or any preferred order of cutting nails or particular day in which it is prefeered not to cut nails. Answer: Assalāmu `alaikum Warahmatullāhi Wabrakatuh, Pairing ones nails is a sunnah of Nabi salallahu alayhi wasallam. The nails should be paired whenever the need arises. ῾Allāmah Tahtāwi rahmatullah alayh (d.1231H) mentions that nails should be paired once a weak and preferably on a Friday. If one delays from pairing once a week (due to slow growth of nails or some other reason) then he should pair them once in fifteen days. Leaving the nails unpaired for more than forty days is a sin. [ii] There is no sunnah of pairing the nails in a specific sequence or order. However, there are different opinions about what is the preferred sequence. Imām Ghazāli rahmatullah alayh (d.505H) has preferred and expounded on a particular sequence for pairing nails in hisIhyā’ Ulūmid Dīn. He mentions that one should start pairing the nails from the Shahadah finger of the right hand and then move towards the right till the small finger. Then one should start with the small finger of left hand and move towards the thumb of the left hand. Finally one should finish pairing at one’s right thumb. [iii] ῾Allāmah Nawāwi rahmatullah alayh (d.676H) has mentioned in his Al Majmū῾Sharhul Muhadhibthat this view of Imām Ghazāli rehmatullah alayh is acceptable except for the part where he says that the right thumb should be delayed it the end. ῾Allāmah Nawāwi rahmatullah alayh says that pairing the right thumb before starting the left hand will fulfil the preference of “beginning (an action) with the right”. [iv] Mullah ῾Ali Qārī rahmatullah alayh (d.1014H) has thus conclusively mentioned in Mirqāt ul Mafatīh Sharah Mishkātil Masābīh that the preferred method is to start from the right index finger (Shahadah finger) to the right small finger then the right thumb. Thereafter, for left hand start from the small finger and ending towards the thumb. [v] Pairing of the toe nails will be from the small right toe to the small left toe. [v] With regards to specifying a particular day too, different opinions have been mentioned in the books. ῾Allāmah ibn Hajar rahmatullah alayh makes clarification of these views and mentions that the most appropriate view is that there is no reason to make any day specific for pairing ones nails. However, one may choose Jumu῾āh(Friday) to pair ones nails since most people reserve this day to clean themselves and beautify for the congregation. [vi] Mawlana Faisal bin Abdul Hameed Student, Darul Iftaa Canada Checked and Approved by, Muftī Ebrahim Desai. www.daruliftaa.net اعْلَم أَن تقليم الْأَظْفَار لَا يتوقت وَالضَّابِط فِي ذَلِك الِاحْتِيَاج فَأَي وَقت يحْتَاج إِلَى تقليمه يقلمه (عمدة القاري شرح صحيح البخاري 22/ 46) [ii] تكميل من كمال النظافة قص ظفر وحلق شعر قال في الخانية والخلاصة من كتاب الاستحسان رجل وقت لقلم أظفاره أو حلق رأسه يوم الجمعة قالوا: إن أخره إلى يوم الجمعة تأخيرا فاحشا يعني قد جاوز الحد كره لأن من كان ظفره طويلا يكون رزقه ضيقا فإن لم يجاوز الحد وأخره تبركا بالأخبار فهو مستحب لما روت عائشة رضي الله عنها مرفوعا من قلم أظافيره يوم الجمعة أعاذه الله من البلاء إلى الجمعة الأخرى وزيادة ثلاثة أيام وفي استحسان القهستاني عن الزاهدي يستحب أن يقلم أظفاره ويقص شاربه ويحلق عانته وينظف بدنه في كل أسبوع مرة ويوم الجمعة أفضل ثم في خمسة عشر يوما والزائد على الأربعين آثم اهـ (حاشية الطحطاوي على مراقي الفلاح شرح نور الإيضاح ص: 524) [iii] ولم أر في الكتب خبراً مروياً في ترتيب قلم الأظفار ولكن سمعت أنه صلى الله عليه وسلم بدأ بمسبحته اليمنى وختم بإبهامه اليمنى وابتدأ في اليسرى بالخنصر إلى الإبهام ولما تأملت في هذا خطر لي من المعنى ما يدل على أن الرواية فيه صحيحة إذ مثل هذا المعنى لا ينكشف ابتداء إلا بنور النبوة وأما العالم ذو البصيرة فغايته أن يستنبطه من العقل بعد نقل الفعل إليه فالذي لاح لي فيه والعلم عند الله سبحانه أنه لا بد من قلم أظفار اليد والرجل واليد أشرف من الرجل فيبدأ بها ثم اليمنى أشرف من اليسرى فيبدأ بها ثم على اليمنى خمسة أصابع والمسبحة أشرفها إذ هي المشيرة في كلمتي الشهادة من جملة الأصابع ثم بعدها ينبغي أن يبتدىء بما على يمينها إذ الشرع يستحب إدارة الطهور وغيره على اليمين وإن وضعت ظهر الكف على الأرض فالإبهام هو اليمين وإن وضعت بطن الكف فالوسطى هي اليمنى واليد إذا تركت بطبعها كان الكف مائلاً إلى جهة الأرض إذ جهة حركة اليمين إلى اليسار واستتمام الحركة إلى اليسار يجعل ظهر الكف عالياً فما يقتضيه الطبع أولى ثم إذا وضعت الكف على الكف صارت الأصابع في حكم حلقة دائرة فيقتضي ترتيب الدور الذهاب عن يمين المسبحة إلى أن يعود إلى المسبحة فتقع البداءة بخنصر اليسرى والختم بإبهامها ويبقى إبهام اليمنى فيختم به التقليم (إحياء علوم الدين 1/ 141) [iv] وَلَمْ يَثْبُتْ فِي تَرْتِيبِ الْأَصَابِعِ عِنْدَ الْقَصِّ شَيْءٌ مِنَ الْأَحَادِيثِ لَكِنْ جَزَمَ النَّوَوِيُّ فِي شَرْحِ مُسْلِمٍ بِأَنَّهُ يُسْتَحَبُّ الْبُدَاءَةُ بِمُسَبِّحَةِ الْيُمْنَى ثُمَّ بِالْوُسْطَى ثُمَّ الْبِنْصِرِ ثُمَّ الْخِنْصَرِ ثُمَّ الْإِبْهَامِ وَفِي الْيُسْرَى بِالْبَدَاءَةُ بِخِنْصِرِهَا ثُمَّ بِالْبِنْصِرِ إِلَى الْإِبْهَامِ وَيَبْدَأُ فِي الرِّجْلَيْنِ بِخِنْصِرِ الْيُمْنَى إِلَى الْإِبْهَامِ وَفِي الْيُسْرَى بِإِبْهَامِهَا إِلَى الْخِنْصِرِ وَلَمْ يَذْكُرْ لِلِاسْتِحْبَابِ مُسْتَنَدًا (فتح الباري لابن حجر 10/ 345) [v] وَقَصُّ الْأَظْفَارِ “: أَيْ: تَقْلِيمُهَا وَتَحْصُلُ سُنِّيَّتُهَا بِأَيِّ كَيْفِيَّةٍ كَانَتْ، وَأَوْلَاهَا أَنْ يَبْدَأَ فِي الْيَدَيْنِ بِمِسْبَحَةِ الْيُمْنَى ثُمَّ الْوُسْطَى ثُمَّ الْبِنْصَرِ ثُمَّ الْخِنْصَرِ ثُمَّ الْإِبْهَامِ، ثُمَّ خِنْصَرِ الْيَدِ الْيُسْرَى ثُمَّ بِنْصَرِهَا ثُمَّ وُسْطَاهَا ثُمَّ مِسْبَحَتِهَا ثُمَّ إِبْهَامِهَا وَفِي الرِّجْلَيْنِ بِخِنْصَرِ الْيُمْنَى وَيَخْتِمُ بِخِنْصَرِ الْيُسْرَى(مرقاة المفاتيح شرح مشكاة المصابيح 1/ 396) [vi] وَسُئِلَ أَحْمَدُ عَنْهُ فَقَالَ يُسَنُّ فِي يَوْمِ الْجُمُعَةِ قَبْلَ الزَّوَالِ وَعَنْهُ يَوْمَ الْخَمِيسِ وَعَنْهُ يَتَخَيَّرُ وَهَذَا هُوَ الْمُعْتَمَدُ أَنَّهُ يُسْتَحَبُّ كَيْفَ مَا احْتَاجَ إِلَيْهِ … قَالَ الْقُرْطُبِيُّ فِي الْمُفْهِمِ ذِكْرُ الْأَرْبَعِينَ تَحْدِيدٌ لِأَكْثَرِ الْمُدَّةِ وَلَا يُمْنَعُ تَفَقُّدُ ذَلِكَ مِنَ الْجُمُعَةِ إِلَى الْجُمُعَةِ وَالضَّابِطُ فِي ذَلِكَ الِاحْتِيَاجُ وَكَذَا قَالَ النَّوَوِيُّ الْمُخْتَارُ أَنَّ ذَلِكَ كُلَّهُ يُضْبَطُ بِالْحَاجَةِ وَقَالَ فِي شَرْحِ الْمُهَذَّبِ يَنْبَغِي أَنْ يَخْتَلِفَ ذَلِكَ بِاخْتِلَافِ الْأَحْوَالِ وَالْأَشْخَاصِ وَالضَّابِطُ الْحَاجَةُ فِي هَذَا وَفِي جَمِيعِ الْخِصَالِ الْمَذْكُورَةِ قُلْتُ لَكِنْ لَا يُمْنَعُ مِنَ التَّفَقُّدِ يَوْمَ الْجُمُعَةِ فَإِنَّ الْمُبَالَغَةَ فِي التَّنَظُّفِ فِيهِ مَشْرُوعٌ (فتح الباري لابن حجر 10/ http://www.qafila.org/is-there-any-sunnat-of-cutting-nails/

Question: Are Muslims allowed to do yoga as a form of exercise and as a fitness programme? Answer: In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. As-salāmu ‘alaykumwa-rahmatullāhiwa-barakātuh. Yoga has its roots, origins and numerous phrases and acts inextricably linked with Hinduism. As Muslims, we treat matters of our aqeedah (creed and beliefs) with the utmost importance and without compromise. We are sensitive to issues of aqeedah and belief. We do not tread on any path that may lead us to compromise on our aqeedah or influence us in another direction. Yoga has the potential to do just that. Therefore, yoga is not permissible. If one wishes to look after his physical health, there are numerous other exercises that one may implement; exercises that do not compromise ones aqeedah at all. And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best Checked and Approved by, Mufti Ebrahim Desai. http://idealwoman.org/2013/is-yoga-as-a-fitness-programme-permissible/

According to Shariah, the husband has to maintain the wife whether she has wealth or not. We will be discussing the following points: Does the husband have a right to know the wife’s wealth. Does she have to seek her husband’s permission in administrating her financial issues. The relationship between the husband and wife is unique. It is a legal bond submerged with intense love. The implications of a legal issue are different from the implications of a love issue. In legal issues there are rules and regulations that govern the issues. In love, rules are broken. According to Shariah if a wife owns wealth, she is totally independent in her wealth. She can administer her financial issues as she wants. The husband has no right over her financial issues. He should respect the right Shariah has granted to her. She can buy, sell, loan, and deal in her wealth in such a way that it does not infringe the rights of the husband. When the husband regulates his financial issues, and he does not tell his wife about his financial issues, he expects her to respect his right. If she questions him on his wealth, he does not have to divulge information to her. If he buys or sells or does anything, he can conceal all that from his wife. The wife should respect that. Likewise if she conceals her financial issues from him, he too should respect that. Flexibility: Money can become a bone of contention in a marriage. A husband and wife should not live like adversaries in a boxing ring. All the time fighting on financial issues. In marriage, often laws are broken to maintain love and harmony. On one side we have the example of Hazrat Sara the wife of Ebrahim(a.s).She owned Hazrat Hajra, but she gave Hajra as a gift to Ebrahim(a.s). On the other hand we have the wife of Rasulullah Sallallāhu Alayhi Wasallam Hazrat Khadija (r.a). She was very rich and wealthy. She gave her wealth to Rasulullah Sallallāhu Alayhi Wasallam. Allah says: وَوَجَدَكَ عَائِلًا فَأَغْنَى (سورة الضحى آية 8) And He found you poor and made [you] financially rich. This was through the wealth of Hazrat Khadija (r.a). It is because of this flexibility between the spouses, it is not permissible for the husband to give zakat to his wife and vice versa. The wife cannot give her zakat to her husband. It is very possible, she herself will give her zakat to her husband, and she will end up using the same money she gave her husband. Mufti Ebrahim Desai Ideal Woman

Question: If a girl over 9 gets bleeding for the first time, for less that 3 days and it is istehaaza, will she still be classed as baaligh (mature). Answer: A girl becomes baaligh when her periods start (haydh), and not when any bleeding starts. The minimum period is 3 days and the maximum is 10. See nurul iydah page 38: وأقل الحيض ثلاثة أيام وأوسطه خمسة وأكثره عشرة. “The minimum period for haydh is 3, normally 5, and at most 10” Since her bleeding is less than 3 days, it would be classed istihazaa (non-menstrual non-postnatal bleeding) and not haydh, so she would not be considered baaligha yet. (a/hafiz1/12) http://www.tafseer-raheemi.com/q-buloogh-upon-bleeding/

Assalamalikum, I would like to know that after delivery a muslim women is not allowed to leave her house for 40 days. She can only leave her house after completing 40 days. Is there any hadith on this. What does islam say about this? Waiting for your earliest reply. Thank You Answer (Fatwa: 618/463/D=1431) It is not an Islamic rule not to leave home after delivery, rather after delivery in the state of nifas it is unlawful for a woman to have intercourse with her husband. Similarly, keeping fast, offering salah and reciting the holy Quran is forbidden, these are Islamic rulings. The matter of not leaving home is precaution according to medical viewpoint for the safety of health, for which care is taken in houses, as during nifas period often such weakness or illness occurs which takes root, which causes a woman to suffer her whole life. Allah (Subhana Wa Ta’ala) knows Best Darul Ifta, Darul Uloom Deoband