ummtaalib

"If I relax who will undertake the responsibility of governing." The deeds of Muslims, their exertions, their sacrifices in the way of Allaah, their integrity and fortitude. All provide us with lessons. If we study these lessons and forget then what deficiency is it of the lesson? It is our shortcoming that we do not remember the lessons we read. Narrated below is the anecdote of the victory of Alexander. Hadhrat Amr bin al -'Aas (RadhiAllaahu-anhu), who was very brilliant and courageous, was in command of the army at Alexandria. He reported on each matter to the Khaleefa. It took rather long in conquering Alexandria so Hadhrat Umar (RadhiAllaahu-anhu) wrote him a letter stating: "Perchance you have become fond of extravagance. On receiving my letter you must instantly command the army to attack and let that person be in the forefront whom I have appointed as commander. The army must attack the enemy simultaneously". When Umar's (RadhiAllaahu-anhu) letter reached Hadhrat Amr (RadhiAllaahu-anhu) he commanded a ferocious attack. By the Will of Allaah, Alexandria was conquered. Amr bin al Aas (RadhiAllaahu-anhu) noted this good news, summoned a messenger and instructed him to stop at every two and three `manzils' and communicate the glad tidings to the Commander of the Believers. The Messengers name was Mu'aawiya. This is not that Mu'aawiya who was Abu Sufyaan's son, and who had a son named Yazid. This was Mu'aawiya, son of Khadeej. When Mu'aawiya reached Madinah it was already early afternoon. He thought it best to rest and not to go to the Khaleefa straight away. After resolving thus he proceeded in the direction of Masjid-e-Nabawi. By coincidence, Hadhrat Umar's (RadhiAllaahu-anhu) maid-servant saw Mu'aawiya, who was riding on a camel and enveloped in dust. She inquired :"Where are you coming from?" Mu'aaywiya replied: "From Alexandria". The maid-servant ran and told Hadhrat Umar (RadhiAllaahu-anhu) that the messenger from Alexandria had arrived. Hadhrat Umar (RadhiAllaahu-anhu) replied:"Bring him here instantly". Hadhrat Umar (RadhiAllaahu-anhu) was setting his sheet which he wore before emerging when Mu'aawiya approached him and conveyed the good news of the victory to him. Hadhrat Umar (RadhiAllaahu-anhu) fell down in sajda forthwith; he then proclaimed that the people should come to the Masjid. When the inhabitants of Madinah learnt that the messenger from Alexandria had arrived the Masjid was overflowing. Mu'aawiya (RadhiAllaahu-anhu) narrated all the events of the victory. Subsequently, Hadhrat Umar (RadhiAllaahu-anhu) took him to his house. Hadhrat Umar (RadhiAllaahu-anhu) inquired: "Why did you not come to me instantly on reaching Madinah?" Mu'aawiya replied:"I did not come pondering that as it was already early afternoon You would have been in relaxation". Hadhrat Umar (RadhiAllaahu-anhu) retorted : "Mu'aawiya! If I relax who will undertake the responsibility of governing." From those who were appointed administrators of districts and towns, and under-took the responsibility of collecting taxes, an oath was taken: They would not wear splendid clothes; They would not eat refined flour; They would not ride Turkish horses; They would not keep butlers or door-keepers; Their doors would constantly be open to the destitute. Occasionally, these conditions were also written in their documents of appointment and read aloud in public congregation so that the people were aware of the administrators constraints. If any account was received stating that an administrator's expenditure was more than his income, the issue was investigated. And if the expenditure was definitely more than the income, an explanation was demanded. Enormous amounts were deposited in the Baitul Maal, The National Public Treasury

The Peace Treaty with the inhabitants of Jerusalem The text of the peace pact, which has already been mentioned was as follows: The servant of Allaah and Commander of the Believers, Umar makes the following pact with the inhabitants of Jerusalem by the Munificence and Grace of Allaah: 1. The lives of everyone, their belongings, places of worship, Churches and crosses - which they revere - shall be protected in every manner. It will be the responsibility of the government to safeguard them. 2. They shall have the privilege to pray either inside or outside the Churches, according to their religious belief. 3. Their possessions and properties shall not be confiscated under any circumstances. 4. Their Churches shall remain as they are. No Masjid or any other building shall be built in its place. Their crosses shall not be impounded. 5. No `jizya'-land tax will be received from them until the next harvest would be available". Hadhrat Khalid bin Waleed (RadhiAllaahu-anhu), Amr bin al Aas (RadhiAllaahu-anhu), Mu'aawiya bin Abi Sufyaan (RadhiAllaahu-anhu) and 'Abdur Rahmaan bin al - Auf (RadhiAllaahu-anhu) signed this pact as witnesses.

Q. On which hand is it Sunnah to wear a watch? (Query published as received) Answer The wrist watch was not present during the time of Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) and therefore it is not possible to state that it is Sunnah to wear a watch on either the right or left hand. However, analogy can be taken from the practice of the Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) wearing a ring. There are narrations that state that the Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) wore a ring on his right hand and left hand. The same can be applied to the wrist watch and it will be permissible to wear it on the right hand or left hand. Some scholars have favoured wearing the watch on the right hand due to the Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) giving preference to the right hand in praiseworthy actions. And Allah Knows Best Mufti Suhail Tarmahomed Fatwa Department Jamiatul Ulama (KZN) Council of Muslim Theologians

Is shaving the head Sunnah? Q: In besides Umrah and Hajj is it Sunnah or just permissible to shave the head? (I read Imam Tahawi Rahmatullahi alaih has mentioned it is sunnah). A: It is only established in the Hadith that Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) shaved his head at the time of Hajj and Umrah. Hence shaving the head at other times besides Hajj and Umrah will not be regarded as a Sunnah, instead it will be regarded as permissible. And Allah Ta'ala (الله تعالى) knows best. عن على رضى الله عنه أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال من ترك موضع شعرة من جنابة لم يغسلها فعل به كذا وكذا من النار قال على فمن ثم عاديت رأسى فمن ثم عاديت رأسى ثلاثا وكان يجز شعره (سنن أبي داود #249) وبهذ الحديث استدل الطيبي على سنية حلق الرأس لتقريره صلى الله عليه سلم ولأنه من الخلفاء الراشدين الذين أمرنا بمتابعة سنتهم ورد عليه القاري وابن حجر فقالا إن فعله رضي لله عنه إذا كان مخالفا لسنة عليه الصلوة والسلام وبقية الخلفاء يكون رخصة لا سنة (بذل المجهود 1/ 152) Answered by: Mufti Zakaria Makada Checked & Approved: Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)

Traveling & Fasting A: It is compulsory for a person who is present in his hometown at the time of Subh Sadiq to fast. Since he only intends travelling during the course of the day the concession of not fasting does not apply to him. Hence, if he does not keep the fast he will be sinful. (Ahsanul Fataawa vol.4 pg. 447) ومنها السفر الذي يبيح الفطر وهو ليس بعذر في اليوم الذي أنشأ السفر كذا في الغياثية فلو سافر نهارا لايباح له الفطر في ذلك اليوم وإن أفطر لا كفارة عليه بخلاف ما لو أفطر ثم سافر كذا في محيط السرخسي (الفتاوى الهندية ج1 ص206) (وللمسافر الذي أنشا السفر قبل طلوع الفجر إذ لايباح له الفطر بإنشائه بعد ما أصبح صائما بخلاف ما لو حل له مرض بعده فله (الفطر) لقوله تعالى فمن كان منكم مريضا أو على سفر فعدة من أيام أخر … (وصومه) أي المسافر (أحب إن لم يضره) لقوله تعالى: ,أن تصوموا خير لكم (مراقي الفلاح ص686) Answered by: Mufti Zakaria Makada Checked & Approved: Mufti Ebrahim Salejee (Isipingo Beach)

Sunnats and Aadaab of Ramadhaan – Part 1 Preparation 1. Start preparing for the month of Ramadhaan well in advance. Some of the pious elders would prepare six months in advance. 2. Make a timetable for how one will utilise the valuable moments of Ramadhaan. عن أبي سعيد الخدري رضي الله عنه عن النبي صلى الله عليه و سلم قال من صام رمضان وعرف حدوده وتحفظ مما ينبغي له أن يتحفظ كفر ما قبله رواه ابن حبان في صحيحه والبيهقي (الترغيب و الترهيب رقم 1474) Hadhrat Abu Saeed Khudri (Radhiallahu Anhu) reports that Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) said: “Whoever fasts the month of Ramadhaan and acknowledges its boundaries and limits and ensures that he fulfils the rights of ramadhann as he ought to fulfil it, all his previous sins will be forgiven. 3. If a person has any outstanding rights in relation to the Creator (e.g. qadha salaah, qadha fasts unpaid zakaat etc) or the creation (e.g. one has oppressed someone or hurt anyone in any way) or any unsettled debts, then before the month of Ramadhaan enters, he should sort out his affairs and fulfil all outstanding obligations in order for him to be able to derive the full blessings of the month of Ramadhaan. 4. Try to gradually increase your ibaadat from before Ramadhaan and get into a set routine of making ibaadat so that it will be easy to carry out ibaadat during the month of Ramadhaan. 5. Engage in plenty of istighfaar and du`aa from before Ramadhaan . 6. When the month of Rajab comes, recite the following duaa abundantly: اَللّهُمَّ بَارِكْ لَنَا فِيْ رَجَبٍ وَّ شَعْبَان وَ بَلِّغْنَا رَمَضَان “O Allah! Bless us in the months of Rajab and Sha’baan and take us forth to the month of Ramadhaan.” عن أنسٍ رضي الله عنه قال كَانَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيهِ وَ سَلَّمَ إذَا دَخَلَ رَجَبٌ قَالَ اَللّهُمَّ بَارِكْ لَنَا فِيْ رَجَبٍ وَّشَعْبَانَ وَبَلِّغْنَا رَمَضَان (شعب الايمان رقم 3815) Hadhrat Anas (Radhiallahu Anhu) reports that whenever the month of Rajab would arrive, Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) would make the following dua, “O Allah! Bless us in the months of Rajab and Sha’baan and take us forth to the month of Ramadhaan.” 7. With the approach of Ramadhaan recite the du`aa: اَللّهُمَّ سَلِّمْنِيْ لِرَمَضَان وَ سَلِّمْ رَمَضَانَ لِيْ وَ سَلِّمْهُ لِيْ مِتَقَبَّلا O Allah! Safeguard me for the Month of Ramadhaan (by making me see the Month of Ramadhaan healthy and fit so that I can take maximum benefit from it), and safeguard the Month of Ramadhaan for me (by making the conditions in it such that I can take maximum benefit from it) and accept it from me عن عبادة بن الصامت قال: كان رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يعلمنا هؤلاء الكلمات إذا جاء رمضان اللهم سلمني لرمضان وسلم رمضان لي وسلمه لي متقبلا. رواه الطبرناني في الدعاء والديلمي وسنده حسن. (كنز العمال رقم 24277) Hadhrat Ubaadah bin Saamit (Radhiallahu Anhu) reports that Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) would teach the Sahaabah the following duaa at the approach of Ramadhaan: اَللّهُمَّ سَلِّمْنِيْ لِرَمَضَان وَ سَلِّمْ رَمَضَانَ لِيْ وَ سَلِّمْهُ لِيْ مِتَقَبَّلا 8. Any nafl (voluntary good deed) carried out in the month of Ramadhaan fetches the reward of a fardh act and the reward of a fardh act carried out in Ramadhaan is multiplied 70 fold. عن سلمان رضي الله عنه قال خطبنا رسول الله صلى الله عليه و سلم في آخر يوم من شعبان… من تقرب فيه بخصلة من الخير كان كمن أدى فريضة فيما سواه ومن أدى فريضة فيه كان كمن أدى سبعين فريضة فيما سواه (الترغيب و الترهيب رقم 1483) Hadhrat Salmaan (Radhiallahu Anhu) reports that Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) delivered a khutbah on the last day of Sha’baan, (wherein he mentioned): “Whoever intends drawing near to Allah Ta’ala by performing any virtuous deed (nafl), for such person shall be the reward like the one who performed a fardh in any other time. And whoever performs a fardh, shall be blessed with the reward of seventy faraaidh in any other time.

Here's one with Urdu Manzil (www.tauheed-sunnat.com).pdf and one with English manzil_en.pdf

The Correct Expression of Parental Love (Highlights of Mufti Ebrahim Salejee’s majlis - Saturday 15th March) Allah Ta‘ala has created a natural bond of love between parent and child. There is no way that this can be erased and removed. Mashaayikh explain that there are two types of relationships where the senior wishes that the junior excels him. One is the father and child and the other is the shaikh and mureed. In any other relationship the one will want to outdo the other. However, the thing to see is how do we maintain this love. It shows itself in different ways and it is Allah Ta‘ala that has created it. But in the feeling of emotions not every person knows how to express this love. Because of the bond you cannot say that all your decisions are right and that because I love my child I will make all the decisions in his life. At one level are our emotions, but above that is intellect and above that is the Sharee‘ah. Allah Ta‘ala wants us to express love, but at the same time we should consult because with emotions at times our reasoning becomes clouded. So you will take mashwarah, but the umbrella over everything is the Sharee‘ah. The point to understand is that whose love is greater, is your love for your child greater or the nabi’s love? The reality is that the nabi’s love is greater. So when his love is greater for your child, then how much greater will his love be for his own children. Hence, what he loves for his children will be the best. So what did he love for his children? Allah Ta‘ala speaks of the bequest of Ebrahim (‘alaihis salaam) to his children during his last moments – wa was saa bihaa ebrahimu . . . What was the legacy? Allah Ta‘ala has chosen this deen for you. And this was my whole life’s effort. Deen is an entire package. It is not a selective package. You give everything of yours to deen; your life, your wealth, your intelligence, for everything belongs to Allah. The second bequest was that you should make sure that you die as Muslims. When ‘Umar bin ‘Abdul ‘Aziz (rahimahullah) was in his last moments, someone came and reprimanded him saying that you have left nothing for your children. He replied that if they are righteous then Allah will take care of them and if they are sinful then why should I leave wealth behind for them and assist them in their wrong. This was his succession plan for his children. The historian reporting this says that I saw the children of ‘Umar bin ‘Abdul ‘Aziz and the children of the other khulafaa. Not long had passed and the children of the other khulafaa would actually stretch out their hands for handouts from people, whereas the children of ‘Umar bin ‘Abdul ‘Aziz were able to equip the Muslim army with 200 fully laden horses to assist the mujaahideen. This does not mean that we should not leave behind anything for our children. We should leave something for them, but our equations are wrong. We feel that if they are left with wealth and investments then only will they prosper. Rather, 15 to 20 percent can be wealth and the rest 80 percent should be deen. Deen does not mean merely seeking knowledge, but practically implementing deen and transferring right healthy Islamic values. This will come about with pious company and Allah Ta‘ala says: koonu ma‘as saadiqeen (Join the ranks of the truthful.). This is an obligation that is perpetual. But if we cannot remain in their company then the substitute will be to study those kitaabs that they recommend. The idea is to break away from every other thing and connect to Allah Ta‘ala. We will eventually have to meet Allah. So we should meet Him in a state that He is pleased with us and we are pleased with Him.

Extravagance check: Do you shop till you drop? By Sadaf Farooqi IT’s a commonly witnessed trend at weddings and parties: impatient haste in scurrying to the tables laden with food, jostling and shoving, spilling food while bringing it to the plate, piling the latter high with meat and rice, eating it at a speed that would render the already spice- and oil-rich food difficult to digest, and forcefully filling up children’s plates with much more than they can possibly consume. Among ladies, it is common to withhold mutual envy and fierce competitiveness in couture, footwear and jewelry. Be it a Qur’an lecture, religious gathering, or an Eid party, the expensive dresses are taken out and matched meticulously with jewelry and sandals; make-up is applied and the hair is coiffed, in order to try to outshine the rest and get the most compliments. “O children of Adam! ...eat and drink, but do not waste by extravagance; certainly, He (Allah) does not like those who waste!” (Qur’an, 7:31) Allah has granted us countless blessings, telling us to enjoy them in this world: an inexhaustible variety of food, clothing, jewels and dwelling; His one condition for using these blessings is, however, that we do not commit excess or go to extremes in our enjoyment. It is difficult to put an exact definition to what is ‘excess’ or ‘extravagance’ in our daily life – because the concept is relative. What might be too expensive for one family, might be a normal standard for another, depending on income and familial heritage. For example, a country’s elite may consider a certain type of car ordinary, but for a family residing in the slums, the same car would be the epitome of luxury and fortune. Extravagance, therefore, lies in a person’s heart; it depends on their intention for using or acquiring that blessing. To check if you’re extravagant in life, ask yourself these questions: • Would you buy a dress, pair of shoes, a tech gadget, a piece of crockery, or an item of furniture if you knew that no one would see it or praise it? The answer will determine if you are spending for your own pleasure or as a show-off. • When someone comes over for a visit, do you frantically rush out to buy certain pricy food-items to serve your guests, which you normally won’t yourself? • When you attend a social gathering, do you feel jealous of other’s pricy acquisitions and accessories? Do you keenly take interest in the dress and décor, vying to get the same for yourself as soon as possible? • Do you buy anything on a mere whim, exhausting your monthly budget and leaving your cash supply dwindled for the rest of the month? • At the end of a meal, do you throw away an amount of food or drink that could easily have filled a person’s stomach? • When making friends, do you give precedence to looks, social status, income level, educational background, residential location and profession? Do you socialize on the basis of their couture choices, clientele exclusivity, elitist mindset, and corporate reputation? All the above questions, when answered honestly, will tell you whether you are really prone to extravagance, pomp and show-off. Here are a few desires that drive the urge to be extravagant: • Desire to outshine others; • Desire for fame and emulation; to be praised publicly; • Desire to be seen as unique and exclusive in personal fashion choices; • Fear of being upstaged by someone else, of being ostracized or downgraded; Is there a remedy? The remedy for extravagance lies in truly following the Deen of Islam. It takes time to change one’s wasteful habits, but for starters, you can undertake the following steps toward balanced spending: • Gain knowledge of Islam, by studying the Qur’an and Sunnah, with the intention of acting upon it; • Curb a desire when it is created in your heart. The best remedy for desires of the nafs (self) is to nip them in the bud – Allah has Himself endorsed this by obligating us to fast for a month and give Zakah every year; • Supplicate earnestly to Allah to cleanse your heart from desires and from the love of this world; Last but not least, keep reminding yourself that there is just ‘one’ place where eternal and euphoric happiness of blessings can be truly enjoyed, and that is Paradise. “…(and they will be told:) “Eat and drink comfortably for what you used to do (in life)!” (Qur’an, 77:43) Islaminfo

Sustaining Spousal Love Quell Insecurity, Give Space “You just spent the last half an hour on the phone! What were you discussing that made you laugh so hard? I’ve been waiting for your conversations to end, just to have a scrap of your attention.” Have you ever known someone who is inherently insecure? Being in a close relationship with such a person can be rather stifling. This is because insecurity gives birth to character and personality traits that make a person demand from others more than they can give. E.g. those who are insecure suffer from low self-esteem, frequently copy those around them, cling to the loved ones, dislike being alone, and want to feel needed by their loved ones all the time. They often complain of being ignored or undermined, wallow in self-pity, and regularly guilt-trip their dear ones for supposedly neglecting their rights or being harsh. Actually, they suffer from fears based on a sense of inherent worthlessness, which makes them consistently undermine and ignore their own positive qualities and strengths. They link their sense of self-worth to others’ need of them, which means that the minute their family or friends get busy in doing something that does not involve them, they feel “ignored” or devalued. Consequently, they thrive on ensuring that people keep “in need of them” all the time, in some way or the other. Now imagine being married to an insecure person. Whether it is the husband or the wife who is insecure, the result is usually disastrous, as it affects the couple’s marriage detrimentally. The more self-confident partner starts to feel tied down and manipulated. He or she ends up feeling guilty even for enjoying “normal” life activities, because their spouse makes them feel bad for giving any attention or time elsewhere. An insecure spouse becomes controlling and interfering, clinging to their partner and often making them feel suffocated and trapped. Insecure spouses refuse to give their spouse a healthy personal ‘space’ that the latter needs to thrive and grow as an individual. What is ‘space’? Any adult needs ‘space’ to succeed; to enable Allah let them grow and morph into what they are destined to be. This space comprises of their personal independence and freedom of choice within the broad boundaries of all actions and endeavors that are permissible in Islam. Whether it is their time, profession, choices in clothing, lifestyle, or ways of making and spending money, as long as their choices do not result in the disobedience of Allah, they are supposed to be free to do as they please - as responsible, sensible and mature adults. A healthy marriage allows - rather, facilitates - the growth and personal success of both spouses. The result of a happy marriage shows on both of them in the form of good health, self-confidence, increased productivity and a more ‘buoyant’ disposition and demeanor. The more caring, respectful and trusting each spouse is of the other; the more the latter grows, thrives and matures because of the union. The Insecure Spouse Newlywed husbands and wives should remember that, in the early years of marriage, being clingy, possessive, interfering, and jealous and controlling, can cause damage to their mutual love. It is common, though, for one spouse to be more insecure, and hence more controlling of the other. Small things, such as how much time a spouse is giving to someone else on the phone, chatting and emailing, be they a family member, friend, or colleague; all this might lead to an insecure and clingy spouse the wrong way. Their job or profession; how many social outings they attend without their partner - can begin to rub an insecure and clingy spouse the wrong way. This is especially true for the bored wife who has little to do to fill up her spare time; who constantly ‘waits for her husband to get home’ in order to occupy herself instead of doing something worthwhile to pass her time. Such a wife dislikes being left alone by her husband at social gatherings, even if he is giving time to a relative he meets only once in many years. As for the insecure husband, he gets jealous even if his wife steps outside the home without him, or talks to someone else, on the phone or online, in his presence. He uses the authority that Islam has afforded him, to promptly place restrictions on his wife as soon as they get married, primarily by stopping her from going out without him, or from meeting her family on a reasonable basis, or even pursuing permissible hobbies, education, or work that does not violate any laws or commandments of Allah. Insecure wives and husbands thus ‘keep an eye’ on their spouse all the time. They check the latter’s email inboxes and mobile phones to survey their text messages and emails, ensuring that there are none from the opposite gender. They hang around when their spouse talks on the phone, fearful that something ‘secret’ might be discussed behind their back. When their spouse is out elsewhere, especially if they are enjoying themselves with others, they keep calling to ask them when they will return home. If not checked, in the first year of marriage these minor self-esteem issues can blow up quickly, escalating into bigger relationship problems. There are ways of giving each other space, in order to retain their individual identity whilst still maintaining and enjoying a close emotional bond in the marriage. The First Few Years - Make or Break The first 2 or 3 years of marriage are different from the succeeding ones, in that, most spouses desire exclusive time with each other. These years are usually slow, with a lot of spare time sans the distraction and diversion of babies. Sometimes, wives find themselves getting bored, and if their husbands do not take them out, or are busy in work, they can get very frustrated, clingy and homesick (wanting to go to their parents’ home). When together, the couple should try to enjoy diverse activities e.g. they can take road trips, go on quiet nature walks, visit museums or libraries, or undertake inexpensive domestic travel in their spare time, such as holidays, to keep themselves occupied. When one spouse is busy, or needs to give his or her time elsewhere e.g. to study for an important exam, or attend a conference in another city, the left-behind, idle partner should be careful that they do not start moping around and complaining of boredom. Rather, they should take this “free” time as an opportunity to do something that they are otherwise unable to do when their spouse is around. These things could be like catching up with family and friends, reading a book, attending an online webinar or short course, sleeping in, writing a journal entry/blog post, pursuing a hobby (e.g. gardening), working on a project or deadline, spring cleaning their room, or even cooking or baking. Maintaining the Balance It is very important to be able to differentiate between a spouse’s genuine complains and nagging stemming from insecurity. Time apart should be restricted only to necessities, especially in the first few, formative years of marriage. Socializing without one’s spouse should be a once-in-a-while occurrence, not a regular feature or daily habit. For spouses who are insecure by nature, it is imperative that they realize that their inherent insecurity will cause problems for their own selves. They should not just curb any negative thoughts, doubts and fears about their husband or wife that come into their heads, but should also find productive pastimes to fill up their spare time, when their spouse is occupied elsewhere. As they say, an idle mind is a devil’s workshop. And Muslim marriages are prime targets of the Shaitan. As far as personal space goes, the more of it one gives to their life partner, the more love, care and respect they get in return. S Farooqi Islaaminfo

It depends on the methodology of the shaykh because different mashaikh work in different ways. Generally speaking however, certain dhikr is prescribed like Durood, Astaghfaar etc. and we are told to make up any qadha salaah/fasts and increase recitation of the Qur'an. We should keep contact at intervals to inform shaykh of our progress or otherwise and regarding rectification of our spiritual illnesses....like a doctor to whom we relate the symptoms and who then prescribes medication. Remember it is of utmost importance we search for a qualified shaykh and if at any time we perceive anything unislamic, he should be abandoned immediately.

It does not say "haram" sister haya.....we should avoid the styles of the non believers. Jeans and tea-shirts are also not haram though obviously lose clothing similar to sunnah attire would be better

Reminder

Yes if sisters wish to traverse this path then one of the ways is to make the pledge to a qualified shaykh and the Mashaikh are male. It is done from behind the curtain or from another room altogether or by mail. There is no "meeting" the shaykh and also the permission of a mahram is necessary. We need to be careful as there are many "Fake" mashaikh who meet women, shake hands, talk to them and even visit homes. Totally unislamic and unacceptable, may Allah ta'ala protect and guide

easy peasy : )

The teachings and advices of Shaykh Yunus Patel (Raheemahullah) are awesome! Jazaakillah sister amaturrahman for posting them here and for the posts on the extremely beneficial teachings of Shaykh Abdu Hameed sahib

Masjid-ul-Aqsa Click on image to enlarge Masjid-ul-Aqsa: Its virtues and significance Masjid ul Aqsa is:The first Qiblah of the Muslims The station of Isra and Miraj The second house of Allah Ta’ala built on earth The place where hundreds of Messengers of Allah Ta’alaare buried The place where many Companions (RA) are buried The place where miracles were shown by Allah Ta’ala’s Will A place which Allah Ta’ala himself calls a ‘blessed place’ Referred to directly and indirectly, seventy times in the Noble Quran The place where angels have descended with Allah Ta’ala’s message The only place on earth where all the Messengers of Allah prayed at the same time, led by the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) The only Masjid mentioned by name in the Noble Quran, apart from the Kabah Musjid ul Aqsa- The second house of Allah: Abu Dhar (RA) reported that he asked the Prophet (SAW) “O Prophet of Allah (SAW), Which Masjid was built 1st on earth¨? The Prophet (SAW) replied, “The Sacred Masjid of Makkah¨. Abu Dhar (RA) again asked, “Which was next¨ ? The Prophet (SAW) said, “The Masjid Aqsa¨. Masjid-ul-Aqsa: Its virtues and significance Abu Dharr (RA) further asked “How long was the period between the building of two Masajid¨? The Prophet (SAW) said, “40 years. Apart from these, offer your prayers anywhere when it is time to pray, although excellence is in praying in these Masajid¨. Sahih al Bukhari The importance of visiting Masjid al-Aqsa: Abu Hurairah (RA)relates that the Prophet (SAW)said, “You should not undertake a special journey to visit any place other than the following three Masajid, with the expectation of getting greater reward : the Sacred Masjid of Makkah, this Musjid of mine (SAW), and Masjid al-Aqsa (of Jerusalem)¨. In another narration the words are, “For three Masajid, a special journey may be undertaken: The Sacred Masjid (Ka’bah), my Masjid (SAW), and the Masjid of al-Quds (Jerusalem)¨. Sahih al Bukhari, Sahih Muslim, and Sunan Abu Dawd Greater virtue of praying in Masjid al-Aqsa: Anas ibn Malik (RA) relates that the Prophet (SAW)said, “The prayer of a person in his house is a single prayer; his prayer in the masjid of his tribe has the reward of 25 prayers; his prayer in the Masjid in which the Friday prayer is observed has the reward of 500; his prayer in Masjid al-Aqsa (i.e al-Aqsa Sanctuary) has a reward of 5,000 prayers; his prayer in my Masjid (SAW)(Madinah) has a reward of 50,000 prayers; and the prayer in the Sacred Masjid (Ka’bah) at Makkah has a reward of 100,000 prayers¨. Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah The importance of donating to Masjid al-Aqsa: Abdullah ibn Umar (RA) relates, I asked the Prophet (SAW),”Apostle of Allah, tell us the legal injunction about (visiting) Bayt al-Maqdis (Jerusalem).¨ The Apostle of Allah (SAW)said, “Go and pray there. If you cannot visit it and pray there,then send some oil to be used in the lamps¨. Sahih al Bukhari The virtues of wearing Ihram from Masjid al-Aqsa: Umm al-Mu’minin, Umm Salmah (RA), relates that the Prophet (SAW) said, “If anyone puts ihram for Haj or Umrah from Masjid al-Aqsa and then proceeds to the sacred Masjid, his former and latter sins will be forgiven or he will be guaranteed Paradise¨. The narrator Abdullah (RA) was not certain which of these words were said Sunan Abu Dawud The blessed land of Masjid al-Aqsa: Zaid ibn Thabit (RA) reports that the Prophet (SAW) said, “How blessed is Sham¨! The companions (RA) around asked: “Why is that¨? The Messenger (SAW) replied, “I see the angels of Allah Ta’ala spreading their wings over Sham¨. Ibn Abbas (RA) added. “And the Prophets of Allah (AS) lived there. There is not a single inch in al-Quds (Jerusalem) where a prophet (AS)has not prayed or an angel not stood¨. Tirmidhi and Imaam Ahmed Masjid al-Aqsa – The 1st Qibla: Abdullah ibn Umar (RA) narrates, “We prayed with the Prophet (SAW)facing al-Quds (Jerusalem) for sixteen or seventeen months. Then Allah Ta’alaordered him to turn his face towards the Ka’bah (in Makkah)¨. Sahih al Bukhari, Masjid al-Aqsa – The place for major events near Qiyamah: 1. Mujamma ibn al-Harith (RA)narrates that the Prophet (SAW)said, “Ibn Maryam (Isa) (AS) will kill Dajjal (the Anti-Christ) at the door of Ludd (a town inPalestine)¨. Tirmidhi and Imaam Ahmed 2. Nahik ibn Suraym al-Sakuni (RA) relates that the Prophet (SAW)said, “You will fight the Pagans until the remnant of you fights on the River Jordan, you to the east of it (present day Jordan) and they to the west of it (occupied Palestine)¨. Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani 3. Maymunah bint Sa’ad (RA) reports that she asked the Prophet (SAW) , “Oh Messenger of Allah (SAW), give us a pronouncement about al-Quds (Jerusalem)¨. The Prophet (SAW) replied, “It is the land were they (mankind) will be raised (Hashar) and gathered (Mahshar)¨. Imaam Ahmed and al-Tabarani 4. The Messenger of Allah (SAW) stated regarding the inhabitants of the blessed land, “they and their wives, children, and slaves (men and women) are in Ribat (guardians,literally a fort) in the cause of Allah Ta’ala¨.Al-Tabrani Masjid al-Aqsa – The place of Mujahidin: 1.Ummamah al-Bahil (RA)reports that the Prophet (SAW)said, “A group of my community will remain on truth,they will vanquish their enemy and those with them will not be able to harm them until Allah Ta’ala commands¨. “Where are these people¡¨? The companions (RA) asked. The Prophet (SAW)replied, ¡§In and around al-Quds (Jerusalem)¨. Immam Ahmed 2.Muawiyah ibn Abi Sufyan (RA)relates that the Prophet (SAW) said, “There is a group among my followers who will continue to be openly on the truth. No one who opposes them will harm them, until the coming of the Hour¨. The companions (RA) asked, “Where will they be¨? The Prophet (SAW) replied, ” They will be in and around Bayt al-Maqdis¨. Immam Ahmed 3.Abu Hurairah (RA)relates that the Prophet (SAW)said, “A group of my community will not cease to fight at the gates of Damascus and at the gates of al-Quds (Jerusalem) and its surroundings. The betrayal of whoever deserts them will not harm them in the least. They will remain victorious,standing for truth, until the Final Hour rises¨. Al-Tabrani Masjid al-Aqsa – The best place of residence: Abdullah ibn Umar (RA) reports that the Prophet (SAW)said, “There will be migration upon migration. The best of the inhabitants of the earth will reside where Prophet Ibrahim (AS) migrated ( ie. Jerusalem)¨. Sunan Abu Dawud Masjid al-Aqsa – Liberation of Masjid al-Aqsa Prophesied: Shaddad ibn Aws (RA) reports that the Prophet (SAW) said, “Al-Sham will be conquered and al-Quds (Jerusalem) will be conquered and you or your sons will be Imaams there, if Allah Ta’alawills¨. Al-Tabrani Masjid al-Aqsa – The site for the future Caliphate: Abdullah ibn Hawwala al Azdi (RA)reported, The Prophet (SAW)put his hand on my head and said, ” Ibn Hawwala (RA), if you see that the Caliphate has taken abode in the Holy Land, then earthquakes, tribulations and great events are at hand. The last hour on that day will be closer to people than my hand is to your head¨. Imaam Ahmed and Sunan Abu Dawud Abd al-Rahman ibn abi Umayra al-Muzani (RA) reports that the Prophet (SAW) said, “There will be an oath of allegiance according to guidance in al-Quds (Jerusalem)¨. Sahih al Bukhari and Sahih Muslim Masjid al-Aqsa – Mention by name in the Holy Qur’an: A’isha (RA)reports that the Prophet (SAW)used to recite Surah Isra every night in his prayer Glory be to Allah, who did take his servant on a journey by night, from the Sacred Masjid (in Makkah) to the Masjid of al-Aqsa (in Jerusalem), whose precincts we did bless, that we may show him some of Our signs. Indeed He alone is All-Hearing, All-Seeing. Tirmidhi, Nasai, Ibn Hanbal Source

Aameeeen!! And may Allah ta'ala grant you complete shifa and 'aafiyah! Aameen thumma aameen

Rulings (Fataawaa) Against Qadianism English Tarnslation by Mufti A. H. Elias People have and continue to consult the religious centres and Dar ul Iftaas in order to learn the stance of Islaam regarding this sect. These institutes issued rulings and decisions that were spread over in various books. We have collected them in this book with brevity in order to have easy reference to it, make it easy for publication and translation into various languages and so that its benefit could become wide spread and the reality of Qaadiyaaniyyat could be opened up and made apparent. This is because the Imams of the Haramayn, the scholars therein, the scholars of al Azhar in Egypt, the scholars in India and Pakistan and other scholars of Iftaa’ in Syria, Palestine, Morocco and Africa are sound valid reliable source points and they are trusted by the Muslims in their unanimity. They are the voice ofIslaam and the Ummah of Muhammad sallallaahu 'alayhi wasallam..... READ HERE

Qaadiyaanism is nothing but, conspiracy against Islaam, kufr in the guise of religion and hypocrisy in the name of Islaam. Shaykh Muhammad Saleem Dhorat What is Qaadiyaanism.pdf

Satellite TV Channel MTA (Muslim Television Ahmediyyah) Be aware! Propagation of Qadianism! mta_tv_eng.pdf

Qadianism - A Deception & Conspiracy By Shaykh Mufti Saiful Islam leaflet_qadiyanism.pdf Kahtmenubuwwat

Sunnats and Aadaab of Safr (Travelling) – Part 10 1. When entering the town or city, one should one should recite the following Duaa thrice: اللهم بارك لنا فيه O Allah, grant us barakah in this place Thereafter, one should recite the following Duaa: اَللَّهُمَّ ارْزُقنَا جَنَاهَا وَحَبِّبنَا إِلَى أَهلِهَا وَحَبِّبْ صَالِحِى اَهلِهَا إِلَينَا O Allah, give us of its produce and make us beloved to its people and make the pious of its people beloved to us. عن ابن عمر رضي الله عنهما قال كنا نسافر مع رسول الله صلى الله عليه و سلم فإذا رأى القرية يريد ان يدخلها قال اللهم بارك لنا فيها ثلاث مرات اللهم ارزقنا جناها وحببنا إلى أهلها وحبب صالحى اهلها إلينا (المعجم الأوسط للطبراني رقم 4755) Hadhrat ibn Umar (Radhiallahu Anhuma) reports that the Sahaabah would travel with Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam). When Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) saw a town which he intended entering, he would recite the above-mentioned duaa. One should also recite the following Duaa: اَعُوذُ بِكَلِمَاتِ اللهِ التَّامَّاتِ مِن شَرِّ مَا خَلَق I seek protection through the perfect and beneficial words of Allah Ta’ala (i.e. His names and attributes) from the evil (harm) of His creation. عن خولة بنت حكيم السلمية أنها سمعت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يقول إذا نزل أحدكم منزلا فليقل أعوذ بكلمات الله التامات من شر ما خلق فإنه لا يضره شيء حتى يرتحل منه (مسلم رقم 2708) Hadhrat Khaula (Radhiallahu Anha) reports that she had heard Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) say: “If anyone of you halts at any place, and he recites the following duaa, then no harm will come to him from the time he halts till the time he departs. اَعُوذُ بِكَلِمَاتِ اللهِ التَّامَّاتِ مِن شَرِّ مَا خَلَقَ 2. When one fears an attack (by an enemy) or fears for one safety, one should recite Surah Quraish.

Sunnats and Aadaab of Safr (Travelling) – Part 9 1. One should adopt a gentle approach when dealing with one’s companions and engage in light-hearted discussions while on the journey. One should not adopt a serious approach. 2. Do not undertake a journey unnecessarily. If one has a need then one should undertake the journey, and upon completing one’s need one should hasten to return home. عن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال السفر قطعة من العذاب يمنع أحدكم طعامه وشرابه ونومه فإذا قضى نهمته فليعجل إلى أهله (بخاري رقم 1804) Hadhrat Abu Hurayrah (Radhiallahu Anhu) reports that Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) said: “Travelling (i.e. its difficulty is like) a portion of the difficulty of the punishment of Jahannum which prevents one from his food, drink and sleep. Thus, when one completes his work he should hasten back to his family. 3. When travelling, one should guard his gaze and as far as possible, try to avoid sitting next to females. One should avoid speaking to the air-hostesses or any na-mahram. قُل لِلمُؤمِنينَ يَغُضّوا مِن أَبصـٰرِهِم وَيَحفَظوا فُروجَهُم ذٰلِكَ أَزكىٰ لَهُم إِنَّ اللَّـهَ خَبيرٌ بِما يَصنَعونَ (سورة النور) Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their chastity, that will be more pure for them: And Allah Ta’ala is fully aware of all that they do. عن معقل بن يسار رضي الله عنه قال قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه و سلم لأن يطعن في رأس أحدكم بمخيط من حديد خير له من أن يمس امرأة لا تحل له رواه الطبراني والبيهقي ورجال الطبراني ثقات رجال الصحيح (الترغبي و الترهيب رقم 2938) Hadhrat Ma’qal bin Yasaar (Radhiallahu Anhu) reports that Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) said: “It is better for you that your head be pierced with an iron needle than touching a woman that is impermissible for you.” 4. Carry a lota (jug) and water for the toilet and wudhu. 5. Instead of engaging in vain talk or listening to a nazm etc. occupy yourself in zikr andtilaawat of the Qur’aan Shareef. 6. During the journey, if you are the driver, then ensure that you drive safely. Do not be reckless in your driving. 7. Keep necessary personal information on yourself, or whatever documents one may require on his journey. (e.g. passport, I.D. etc.) 8. First find out the route before embarking on the journey. 9. Keep others comfortable and be of service to them during the journey.